Being male, can someone explain the correct way to have anal sex with another male. Receiving and giving?

top:
1.lube,lube lube
2.slow,slow,slow

bottom:
1.hold the fuck still and hang on!

First you go and wash your penies and massage with oil.

Then nacked the other guy

Find his / her anus.

errect your pennies as you can

put it in to his / her anus.

push and pull yourself to get orgasm and cum

Sorry.........can't help you there........my encyclipedia is closed on that one.

First of all lets get this straight. This Will hurt a little bit (Very little if done properly) if you've never had anal sex before. But anyway:

I cannot stress the importance of lube, it is needed, extremely needed. start off with the receiver on his back knee's drawn up, exposing his entrance. Remember, be very liberal with lube. Start out by lubing up his entrance liberally, and then coating one finger (make sure the nail is cut so nothing is sharp, the anus is extremely sensitive and can be damaged easily) and push it in very very slowly and easily. Once it is fully wait until he says it doesn't hurt and in move it slowly in and out until he is very comfortable. Make sure to tell him/yourself to relax. Relaxation is needed, otherwise it will be like forcing, when it should be more like moving slowly and acceptance. It WILL hurt if you do not relax.

After the first finger lube up a second and add it once again SLOWLY and EASILY. this may hurt a little more, but just remember patience is a virtue. Very slow is the key. Once you've got two fingers in comfortably than move them SLOWLY in and out until he is comfortable.

After this once again lube up a third finger and try to add it in SLOWLY AND EASILY. THIS WILL HURT SLIGHTLY IF YOU ARE NOT SLOW! Ease it in incredibly slowly until you have three fingers in and be careful how you move.

Now "scissor" your fingers slowly and easily (yeah I said it again) until he is comfortable with all three in moving reasonably inside and out.

At this stage I would say you should attempt to find his prostate, it is a small gland located near his "front", between the testicles and anus. You may not notice you have found it, but he will. It feels fantastic when given attention and can produce the best orgasms you will ever have.

Now that you have done all this relube his entrance liberally and apply a LARGE amount of lube to your penis, and begin to SLOWLY enter him. I mean VERY SLOWLY and VERY EASILY. Stop when he asks you too but keep going after the feeling of pain passes (it should not be much after the stimulation listed above but always be mindful of his needs). It should go easily and once your in just move slowly and easily until you have a good decent rhythm going, attempt to aim for his prostate as much as possible, and make sure to pay attention to his penis during the act, if done right you should both go away extremely satisfied.

I didn't really do two different guides, but whether your top or bottom just take the info out of this one guide and apply it to your situation.

A last note, remember Easy going and liberal amounts of lube are the key to this, do not rush anything.

Everything here is taken from what happened when I was first with a guy and was bottom, so I know this works.


Hope it helps.

Are you thinking of calling it quits with women and trying to find love with a man? If so, you are pretty daring. I am sure if you find a homosexual man he will coach you.

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