Do women like quiet men and if so what is so appealing?
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Masculinist
ANSWERS: 15
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Yes, it gives them more time to talk.
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i prefer the man that talks alot!
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I think a man (or a woman for that matter) is most attractive when they're confident without being gobby. Someone who isn't a chore to try and have a conversation with either because they won't say anything or because they won't shut up!
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i cant stand being with a quiet guy because i like to converse not hear myself talk. i dont find anything appealing about a shy guy in fact in turns me off no matter how cute you are or how smart you are doesnt do much for me anyways. but than again im not a quiet person.
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In my experience, it's not about being quiet or being talkative, it's about being PRESENT: to actually BE with a woman (or anyone, for that matter), you have to be able to listen and pay attention to what's going on with her. If you're doing that, there are times for being quiet, and times for talking, and you'll know which is which. If a man isn't listening, he won't know when to shut up, nor will he know when to speak. You could say that being present is a matter of learning to listen -- I mean that in the broad sense of paying attention to here-and-now, it's not restricted to mere audible sound. Seeing with your eyes, and hearing with your ears, attending with your mind. That's listening, that's being present. It's simply the freedom to be available and responsive, without being caught in the grip of some fixed idea or behavior pattern.
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I like the soft spoken guy that is able to have a good conversation. Why? Because he doesn't talk loud enough for the whole world to know what he's saying, and then it's just him and me. However, it depends on the woman/girl.
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I don't like them quiet...
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Well, I'm only one woman, but no. I don't like quiet or shy men. I like manly men. Strong men. Confident men. That's a real man. I'm irritated by shyness. Of course, it is most definitely possible to talk too much. I appreciate intelligent speach. so weird that i keep getting downrated. downrating for an OPINION is kinda shitty. i never said this was true of all women.
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These are all very thoughtful answers. I would say it would depend on who you are. Your nature will dictate to you who you feel most comfortable with. It may not have anything to do with like or dislike but moreso our natural tendency to be drawn to a particular type of person. For me, I'm naturally drawn to quietly confident people who have an interest in everything. We're naturally drawn to those who appear to be comfortable with themselves.
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So those "manly men" will do good when they're not paying attention to how you feel or what you have to say, because other things are inside of their minds. And most "manly men" just use it to cover up how they feel because they're insecure of themselves, and have to feel like they need to put up a picture for everyone to see how they are. And I am a quiet person, But I listen. And keep in mind, "The loudest one in the room is always the weakest".
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I do not like quiet men.
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sure, if he's a quiet person than he might be a good listener and polite.
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Of course they do!!! Infact, surveys show that more than 50% of women prefre the more quiet, sensetive type of guy. Personally, i much prefere a more quiet, sensetive guy, more than a loud aggressive guy, however, everyones different, and everyone goes for different types of people!
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I think they love the talkative guys more coz she would never fell alone with her husband!
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I like quiet guys. I mean, just because someone is quiet doens't mean that they're boring or uninteresting. I see a person's personality. It might surprise you to know that quiet guys can have good personalities.
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