ANSWERS: 8
  • Not at all.
  • No it isn't.
  • No, I think going with her could give her the impression the relationship could be saved. If she has bought tickets for the two of you to travel to the wedding or has had to spend any money for you to attend, then you should reimburse her those costs.
  • No. At least you told her ahead of time.
  • Its not, but hey WHo could pass up all the free food and good times at a wedding? MAYBE ther'll be some nice brides maids there :)
  • No the relationship is over and your right by making sure she knows it. It is however a great thing by asking, it shows your wanting to do the right thing.
  • Not even close to being unresonable. The relationship is over so you no longer have any obiligation to be her date to a function. I'm afarid she's just going to have to find another guy to escourt her.
  • Honestly, I think the big clue for me here, are the words,"...wedding together with HER friends." She'll be glad that you gave her notice ahead of time, and it'll give her a chance to take someone else. It'd be different if you said "our friends," depending on whether you two were getting along. Usually when a relationship is over, its time to bail...and let it stay that way. If you keep giving her hope in small ways, it will hurt her, so just stay away. (Unless, you have kids, then you have a financial obligation to them.)

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