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  • I don't. You'll find it's a waste of good energy.
  • That is kind of hard to do. What is it that he gets so defensive about? You could tell him that it isn't reasonable to be like that with everything you say, that is makes you not even want to talk to him, but that could just make him more defensive, huh? Unless you actually make fun of him or pick at him, this is a problem that he should try to fix and not you.
  • I agree with 'american idle' you don't walk on egg shells you crush them as you tell him to wake up to himself and to grow up and get over it ...your the one who is paying the price because of HIS problems and that is NOT fair on you at all
  • Just talk to him however is natural to you. Risk that he may not like it and leave. Don't care and be willing to accept that you will have someone to accept you for you and love you.
  • Typically, men like that do not like to feel like they are wrong about things, even when they are and they know they are. They don't fess up... they argue and try to find an excuse to make them look as if they are right. They also play on what you feel and turn the tables. It gets deeper and becomes verbal abuse. It's an illness and I'm not quite sure what to call it. However, I am currently dealing with that in a 6 month new relationship and evaluating how much I can take before I set him on the road. It's something in due time they learn to change about themselves. It's nothing you can "fix".
  • Why is he defensive?? Have you changed the way you talk to him? Do you ask him things you didn't before. Maybe this is HIS problem. Is he having trouble at work, with his family, has he found someone else, is he tired of you, etc.? Sounds like something is bothering him. I'd be prepared for anything, even moving on.
  • you can't, it's annoying as hell.
  • He sounds abusive.

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