Agree or disagree, if you are attracted to someone by his/her physical appearance, as the relationship progresses, you start to look for flaws whereas if you attracted by personality, you begin to look for attractive features?
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Koz_Dracon - Nelson Remembered
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Agree, don't judge a book by it's cover but it's content concept
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I don't look for either, but I know that, as the relationship progresses, the person's attractiveness changes. They start to look better. In one of my relationships, though, as the relationship declined, I started to see his physical flaws. Hmm ... interesting.
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I have to disagree. If I am in a relationship with someone they need to be attractive physically and have a good personality. If they aren't as attractive, they're personality makes them more attractive and if they're personality isn't so hot then their physical appearance can make them better but I think in the latter, things wouldn't work out as well.
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I do not agree (with the premise of this question). In my experience, human attraction does not break into neat dichotomies like this. It is a complex mixture of the senses, imagination, circumstance, upbringing, environment, hormones, neurochemistry and 'je ne sais quoi'. The reasons people become attracted/attached are numerous and varied, and the reasons relationships succeed or fail are similarly complex. Which is perhaps as it should be. Our lives, art, song, literature and culture would be duller if these things were so predictable. . . http://www.latimes.com/features/health/la-he-attraction30jul30,0,6503437,full.story . .
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I know I'm not that regimented or consistent in anything, let alone relationships. Sometimes I'm attracted and I don't even know why. Sometimes someone else is attracted to me and I may or may not slowly come around to liking that person "that" way.
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Agree. Never go for a relaionship based on just looks, usually you will end up having nothing in common, it is also quite shallow.
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I cant say I agree or disagree, I personally dont look for attractive features. I have dated someone who was extremely attractive, and he was in love with his self. I would much rather have someone who isnt as good looking but has a great personality, that makes them sexy to me.
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