I saw my boyfriend kissing another girl and I don't want him know that I saw him kissing her. What do you think I should do?
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OddGirlOut
ANSWERS: 29
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I think you should dump his ass!That what I would do if I was you. Why don't you want to confront him about him it?What are you scare of? Do you want to be with some a** who cheating on you?! Dump him!
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Dont call him and let him go.Let him have her that loser.CHEATING IS BAD!!
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Dump him! He's a dirtbag. You're better than that.
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There is no reason for you to feel stress or fear for knowing your boyfriend kissed another girl...in fact, he is the one who should feel ashamed! Try to bring the matter up in a roundabout way, such as asking him if he wants to see other people. It may be tough to do, but I guarantee it is better to go ahead and analyze the situation publicly with him than to rather keep it in the dark. You can do it.
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I really doubt if you can keep it a secret to yourself. At some point, you'll feel compelled to tell him. It's best you do it sooner rather than later.
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you should calmly talk to him about it and see if he tells you the truth about it if he doesnt then let him know that you did see them and dont appriciate him lying to you about it and if he tells you the truth about the situation then let him know how it made you feel and that you dont want it to happen again and keep a look out on him if it happens again then im sure there is someone out there who would treat you better
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Confront him..and then leave his ass.
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Kiss a girl in front of him, get him good an excited about it, then dump his dumb ass.
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castrate him....preferably with a rusty grapefruit spoon.
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This probably isn't the best way to handle it, so I'm not saying in any way that this is what you should do, but I have to admit it's what would bring me the most satisfaction... Don't bring the issue up, just let him think everything is normal. Start hanging out with another guy (preferably a friend who's willing to go along with it) and let your boyfriend make all the wrong assumptions. Then when he asks you what's going on, come back at him with something like "Oh well, I thought we were done, since I saw you kissing (insert name here)." If you're feeling bold enough, add "It's cool, though. I've got (insert name of new guy) now." The desired result is to make him realize he's throwing away a good relationship for what's likely just some crush. If you don't get this result and he's okay with it, then I hope you can realize that he was scum in disguise.
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Kiss another guy when he is watching, but he doesn't know you know he is watching. You might have to stage it, but it would be worth it to see how he reacts.
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I do think that you should get back at him by doing the same thing he did. I do however think you should start hanging out with a guy friend more often, making your bf think that something is going on. Be sure not to go any further and stoop to his level, because you are better then that. Ask him questions about how he would feel if you kissed another guy or liked hanging out with one of your good guy friends. Hopefully he will get the balls to man up and tell you the truth, if he doesn't then he could be hidding alot more then just a kiss.
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stay with him and everytime u see him kissing a female, don't say anything. keep taking him back. it'll be fun living your life like that.
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kiss another guy and make sure he finds out about it/sees it, but don't let him know you saw him kissing another girl. That way you get to hurt him the same way he hurt you. then dump him. he's a jerk and not worth your time
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why wouldnt you? i would bring the wrath of god down on him...and im a guy...
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So, he doesn't know that you know what he knows and she knows, what else is there to know, really?
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Hurry, run outside and bury your head in the sand.
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ARE YOU SERIOUS?!!? What a slime bag. Ask him what he was doing at that time and see if he lies to you. If he does, slap him and tell him you saw him and leave his sorry butt.
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Time to end it. Tell him that you wish him luck and be very sweet and happy.
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Tell him,"I'm just not into you anymore."Nice and blunt,just like that.I wouldn't tell him that you saw him kissing another girl.Let him wonder why.Then go find a guy that's worth your time.
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well if i were u,.....i will tell that thing to my boyfrend because....he willl keep on doing it unless you told him that you witness...the girl and ur womanizer boyfriend"s kissing scene....
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Are you insane girl..tell him you saw him, he's gotten away with this if you dont confront him.. Have some self worth honey..
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Step One: Form a fist with your right hand (if you're dominant hand is your right hand, otherwise make it your left). Step Two: Pull your fist back to just in front of your shoulder, keeping it about two inches above your shoulder, making sure your elbow is pulled well behind your body. Step Three: Keep your eyes on his face, not your own fist. Tense up your arm, so you can feel the bicep and tricep flexing. Step Four: Let swing. Remember not to actually punch AT his face, but THROUGH it. This ensure a good follow through, which is what makes a good punch to the face work. Step Five: Don't even say "I don't want him to know that I saw him kissing her" again. You deserve better than that, you deserve somebody who will treat you right, with plenty of respect, and you deserve to let this jerk know that as well.
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If you don't want him to know the don't let him (or The Girl or anyone else who might let it slip) know. Simple, really. +5
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No need for confrontation. Simply need to leave without explanation. Let him beg you for an answer.
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Why would you NOT want him to know? I am confused by that response. You should WANT to ask him and see what his answer is...see if you believe the answer ...and then make your decision after that. A lot of this also depends on what kind of kiss this was. A passionate kiss...a peck on the cheek..on the forehead...? A passionate kiss would denote a 'romantic' relationship...a kiss on the cheek or forehead might denote a longtime FRIEND or relative...YOU NEED TO TAKE THIS INTO ACCOUNT AS WELL. If it was a passionate kiss and he acts angry or denies it or tries to pretend that it didn't happen when you confront him or says something stupid like "it didn't mean anything"...you need to take a long walk in the other direction...and then just keep on walking....
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Well if you don't want him to know then stop talking and asking questions about it and just forget it.
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You've been given enough feedback and advice so all I will say is Do what you want. What you feel is best.
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If the obvious answer to this one isn't the way you are going to go, tell him you are now into women and want to compare notes on the best kissing technique.
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