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It's usually time when you finally find out for sure that they can't hold a job, out of pure laziness. When they sit around all day long eatin', drinkin', and not doing any cleaning up or helping around the house. We went thru this with my brother. He moved in with some friends, (until they kicked him out for the same reasons).
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its tme to let him go....he needs to hitrock bottom if gets going to quit drinking
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What's in his best interest is for him to go to go to rehab or a homeless shelter. Let him spend one night with full blown alcoholics and drug addicts who have nothing and noone. I'm sure he's a nice son, he just has a problem that is controlling him. The longer you enable him to continue with the destructive behavior, the harder it will be for him to kick the habit. It really is true that a person has to see for themself that they lost everything before they can admit they have a problem.
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the only way to truly help him is to let him go. Even though your intentions are good...you are setting him up to be a person who takes no responsibility for his behaviours...the only way for him to learn that is to experience consequences.
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These are all his problems and not really your problems. You will have to be cruel to be kind I am afraid. For as long as you are letting him life with you, you are actually enabling his drinking to continue. Al-Anon might help you. You have to find the courage to boot him out and not take him back. It will be the making of him
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Being an alcoholic I would say that Alanon is the best suggestion all the other answers seem to come from prople who don't know addiction. You are an enabler us alkies are excellent manipultaters he will play you as long as he can been there done that. I can not necc. condone booting him into the street hit an Alanon meeting and see what people who have been where you are have to say. hurtzsogood
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