It depends if both people are comfortable with the idea. Talk it over, a lot, think of all the outcomes that could happen when you add another person to your sex life. If both of you are still all for it then have at it and have fun!

My husband and I have threesomes. I would not recomment it to everybody. We have long had a very trusting relationship, and we both know what we are looking for when we get together for these types of things. Short answer is it depends on the couple. Some will be into it, and everything will be fine. Some will be into it, but it will tear the marriage apart. Finally, some just won't be into it.

We keep our threesome very open with my wife and me. There are no secrets and we have only had threesomes with the same friend for years. It is a MMF and as long as everyone is ok with it, they are LOT of fun! However, feelings of jealously may creep up on you - I was quick to suppress mine as that's probably just natural to have them while watching your spouse in bliss with another guy.

the choice is yours and your partners but be sure to make rules between you both before inviting someone else into bed with you both.

I really cant fathom why any man in love with his wife could let another man have her....I think you shouldnt even think of that unless you're not married...I'm not a prude but, I would/and have hurt a lot of guys that messed with my woman....just my opinion....

Threesomes are not like regular sex -- they require both imagination and sensitivity. If you plan on having a threesome, you need to go into the situation with some idea of what you're going to be doing. Understanding these basic rules will help you avoid some common mistakes that typically prevent you from getting the most out of your threesome. There are various types of threesomes that you can enjoy, but I'm betting that you're hoping for the type with two women, one of whom is likely your bisexual or bi-curious girlfriend or wife You must respect her limits. Remember that each woman may suddenly feel jealous, so try your best not to shut either woman out and always give more attention to the woman with whom you have a relationship. As well, you may end up feeling jealous if you're not the center of attention. Just keep in mind that the object of the game is to share sex between three people. Also, keep in mind that although some people try to drink their way to bravery for a threesome, drunken sex usually ends up being bad. If you want to have a cocktail or two to loosen up, that's fine, but no more. You want to be at peak performance. Although you may be hoping that the two women will give you 100% of their attention, the truth is that they're there to please each other just as much as they're there to please you. You may end up feeling ignored and should do your best to get over it. The best way to approach this situation is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can. Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, but in a threesome it's more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you. Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex from both women at once), enjoy everything that comes your way. When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy. Take matters into your own hands and find something to do. Caress the breasts, thighs or vagina(s) of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or give oral sex to one if she's in a position that allows you to (believe me, this will redirect attention toward you in a hurry). If you decide instead just to pleasure yourself automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, penetrate only when you're sure both women are comfortable with it. Your natural inclination will be to pay close attention to the woman you're having sex with, but you mustn't focus on her entirely. This is about the three of you, so keep that ideal close at hand. Kiss and touch the other woman, look her in the eye, and talk to her if the mood is appropriate. Be aware that you may feel overwhelmed with pleasure if you're thrusting into one woman and kissing and caressing another, meaning that you might climax more quickly than expected. Take it slowly and pace yourself. And don't get so excited that you lose track of the women: all three of you should be sexually satisfied and, even if you achieve climax first, you must do everything you can to bring your two partners to orgasm. Afterward, lie around with both women in post-coital bliss. But remember, it's not a relationship. This means that the third person likely shouldn't sleep over. It may seem like a great idea in the moment, but prolonging a threesome is a recipe for total disaster. Be reassuring to your girlfriend or wife. You've had fun, but it's only pleasure and experimentation. Tell her that she turns you on, that seeing her being pleasured by another woman aroused you, and that while you enjoyed yourself, there's no one for you but her. She's your primary concern, so let her know it, and you may well have more threesome adventures in the future.

Threesomes and sharing with our friends has worked for my wife and I for the past 25 years.

yea if you trust each other and know that it will not come between yall

Hiya!!! I am married and my husband and I are active in the swinging lifestyle. It has added nothing but wonderful things to our relationship, just remember to communicate everything your feeling with your spouse prior to acting on any meeting! Hope This Helps! Dawn http://www.swingtowns.com

we have been married for 26 years and we had our first threesome when we were in our late 20's that was not really good because we were bot ha little jealous people then. but recently i approached my wife again about it many years later we have great sex she is still very hot and os we did it and we are professional clean people who wanted to inhanse our sex life and boy did it ever. we met a younger man on vacation and he came onto my wife while out one night so we just put it together and it was wonderful because we are secure in each other and lve each other. this guy had a huge cock much larger than mine the wife always said mine was the biggest till this guy came along in fact it was about 11" i did not measure but in 8.5 measured lol she love it and even though i felt a little less it was great/ the way i look at it if we are going ot do this i want her to have the biggest we can find.