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by WHITE BEAR on February 22nd, 2006

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I've met the woman of my dreams. The relationship is 6 weeks in and it's great. She lives 140 miles away. Is it appropriate to think about relocating in about 3 months from now to be with her?

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  • by Anonymous on February 27th, 2006

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    Nothing wrong with "thinking about it" but don't make any major changes in your life or make a solid, definete decision right now- its great that you think she's the woman of your dreams and hopefully things will turn out great, but its still early days and you undoubtedly still have a lot to learn about each other. Don't talk too much about the idea of moving to be with her at the moment, you'll be much more likely to do something hasty- instead concentrate on getting to know each other better- organise a few trips where you go to stay with her for a few days and vice versa- not only to spend time together but to check out the area too- would you be happy there? How easy would it be to get a good job? What is the housing like? and so on. I think its plausible for you to re-locate- and provided you have relatively few ties family and job wise, its not necessarily a bad idea- but don't make concrete plans just yet- go with the flow and concentrate on developing the relationship- if its still going well in a few months time and you're certain that moving won't cause any problems that you're likely to resent her for later (be realistic) then maybe you can start to put your ideas into action. I think it might also be worth asking her if she'd be willing to relocate- not necessarily so to make her do it, but to see whether she's as commited to you as you obviously are to her.

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