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by Vanessa Hauser on October 21st, 2007

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Why do guys need to look at porn if they have a girl friend

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  • by BrokeDog on October 21st, 2007

    BrokeDog

    Even tho' I don't like or agree with pornography, I will not condemn it as absolutely useless. I had an old girlfriend that showed me incredible things she learned from watching it. Even tho' I prefer a couple learning and experimenting together, I won't discount that porn can "spice up" a sexual relationship, IF, (and that's a BIG if), both partners are agreeable to watching it.
    But, I do stress again, I don't do it, and I'm proud that my wife and I learned and grew in our sexual relationship without sexual aids and porn. I never used anything from that previous relationship in my marriage. I didn't need to.

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  • by Rince on October 21st, 2007

    Rince

    I just had my dinner, doesn't mean I can't have a piece of chocolate :-) and just for the record its not just guys.

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  • by sxcgurl on March 18th, 2008

    sxcgurl

    The way i see it is because they are getting bored with their partner as the have done every position in all kind of ways and they need to look at other sexier girls....
    i admit to watching porn but that was only because my partner asked me to watch it with him so i did and i found it really boring myself but as a young women i have been told im weired because all of my female friends watch porn and love it just like a male does!!!

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  • by bigkado69 on October 21st, 2007

    bigkado69

    ill look at it if my friends are watching it but it gets old after like 10 minutes of it.Kinda like goin to the boobie bar cause after like 30 minutes i get bored and want to leave.

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  • by tiberseptim on October 21st, 2007

    tiberseptim

    Not all guys NEED to, but many young men have a healthy sexual appetite that many young women may not be willing or able to fulfill. For those cases, pornography and masturbation are a healthy release, while maintaining fidelity in the relationship.

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  • by nevets - badgicide on October 21st, 2007

    nevets - badgicide

    Nobody "needs" to look at pornography, period.

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  • by anonymossss very broken heart on March 18th, 2008

    anonymossss very broken heart

    Because they are sick!

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  • by Zack on October 21st, 2007

    Zack

    Porn is probably best in moderation.:-)

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  • by HOUSTONLONELY on October 21st, 2007

    HOUSTONLONELY

    maybe to spice up the sex, and besides most guys are nothing but horn dogs, sex is all they think about !!!!

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  • by FallenMan on October 21st, 2007

    FallenMan

    Another way of satisfying fantasies that will never come true with their gf? Heh, this is something you may find with maybe half or a bit more of the guys youll date. Just have to learn to deal with it ;[

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  • by Vanessa Hauser on October 21st, 2007

    Vanessa Hauser

    i personally love porn but whats the point in looking at other naked girls when you have
    a fuckin wild girl in the sack that can do WAY better things then a naked snatch in a magazine
    or on TV.. i guess its some eye candy.. and regardless... something all society can enjoy

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  • by Mr. Cool on October 21st, 2007

    Mr. Cool

    What's wrong with pornography? Am I hurting anyone by watching it?

    Besides, all of my female freinds like watching porn, too. It isn't just the guys. Or maybe only Western women don't like to watch pornography?

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  • by Jeffers on October 21st, 2007

    Jeffers

    guys have an EXTREMELY active, sex-specific fantasy life...

    The woman he's dating/married to has little to do with it... and it's no reflection on his commitment to her.

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  • by Miss. Tandra on October 21st, 2007

    Miss. Tandra

    the girlfriend may be modest and not show them anything.

    but personally i dont think they should :X

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  • by kirsten_dee on February 24th, 2010

    kirsten_dee

    Men have very visual minds. They look at porn cause they have a natural erge to spreed their seed while women want to feel secure. Most men in healthy relationships dont supsitute porn for sex or because they feel that their spouse isnt fulfilling their needs. I've found the hard way that partners need to be able to comunicate about sex, pornography and masterbation. I was the typical girlfriend that forbade any kind of porn after walking in on my man beating it to a lesbian movie. I felt that he shouldnt have to look at other women when he has me and it made me feel like I wasnt good enough. But after looking at some of my insecurities and really reaserching the topic I feel competly different about the subject.

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  • by Howie on September 1st, 2009

    Howie

    Guys generally need a lot more sex than their girlfriends. Guys look at porn because they don't get sex enough - and they may not admit it but after looking at porn, they masturbate.

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  • by brian646 on August 27th, 2009

    brian646

    men love naked women........that is a given......but, if a man and a woman are in a stable relationship, there should be no reason for a man to look at a naked gal other than his girl........take care......brian...

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  • by Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here on March 18th, 2008

    Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here

    It is not a need. It is a want and pornography can be a healthy part of relationship.

    Men are visual creatures. They like seeing other bodies. It does not mean anything against his girlfriend. He does not expect you to look like that.

    It is fantasy. The girls in that video are intangible.

    You are real, you are the one he has that he can touch. The pornography is just a series of pictures. You need not feel threatened.

    Men like to see things. I would rather my boyfriend looked at pronography than other things he could be doing.

    It is a want, not a need. You might even be able to enjoy it with him.

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on March 18th, 2008

    Sheriff Raff -Answerhag

    these guys are never satisfied

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  • by Bartman on October 21st, 2007

    Bartman

    Variety is good!

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  • by Spunts.answered 67 questions in 1 hour. on October 21st, 2007

    Spunts.answered 67 questions in 1 hour.

    vareity is the spice of life.

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  • by Egico is now Egioz on March 18th, 2008

    Egico is now Egioz

    Because they are guys! It's what they think about more than anything else.

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  • by Doggie S on October 21st, 2007

    Doggie S

    Guys tend to separate clean stuff (you) from the dirty ones, even though they enjoy both.

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  • by Sticky Steve on March 25th, 2010

    Sticky Steve

    Because Their girlfiend / wife might be a real minging dog and porn might be their only way of getting off . My Mom keeps on at me to get with this real fat ugly beast of a woman that I've know since school when I was 6 and she was 14 and now I'm now 28 and she's 35 she weighs about 22 stone has a real gormless look about her and is really old fashioned and boring and I keep saying No Chance It aint gonna happen and they tell me I'm gonna be on my own forever but that's better than being with that total fat repulsive minger I'd subscribe to every porn site going if I ever was unfortunate enough or became week and gave in

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  • by thedevilslittleangel on August 17th, 2009

    thedevilslittleangel

    I don't find to be that horrible, actually. No offense to you, really, but I think some girlfriends (even wifes) overreact when they find that their boyfriend/husband has been watching porn. I can understand you being hurt at first but you've got to get past it because he IS a guy, honestly, and he'll always be horny no matter how much sex you give him. I, personally, wouldn't be that offended if I found my BF watching porn or looking at something dirty because in the end YOU are the lucky lady that's in his bed every night, not those other woman. If I found my BF looking at other ladies I might be shocked and a little hurt at first but I'd get over it, take him into our bedroom, and show him that he doesn't need those other chicks to find real pleasure if you know what I'm saying ;-) And to be honest, I'd actually find it a bit of a turn on to watch it WITH my partner, very erotic.

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  • by Altguy on September 1st, 2009

    Altguy

    Guys like porn because its nice to look at !!
    Why do girls get pleasure from buying shoes and handbags ... they just do !!!

    always have and always will !!

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  • by djaydewitt on February 11th, 2010

    djaydewitt

    maybe he isnt gettin what he wants from his gf. maybe his gf should ask him how she could be his dream girl in life and bed?

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  • by Anonymous on August 17th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Before we moved in together, my boyfriend initially said he didn't look at porn. I didn't believe him.
    I then saw some cds upside down beside his bed. Guess what they were?! But as we didn't live together.. I didn't like it, but what can you do.

    When we moved in together I made it very clear that i didn't want that in the house. I was even reluctant to get the internet because of this, but had to for work.

    A few days after moving in, he was sat next to me on his computer looking at something innocent, but he must have pressed something which opened up media player and I read DEEPTHROATGAGGING something when he embarrasingly stabbed at the keys getting it to shut down. I was naively hurt that he had stuff stored on his computer when he had told me that the discs were his friends. He said he would get rid of it. But since then i always wonder...

    His computer never gets used. On the rare occasions he goes on the internet for facebook etc he uses mine. But on the past couple of occasions when i have been out of the house for a few hours or overnight, his computer has been used. I'm pretty sure he was looking at porn or else he would've used mine.

    I understand why single men might use it, or men who don't feel satisfied with their girlfriends. However we have sex 4 or 5 times a week and it is rich and varied. I am a very attentive girlfriend. Mainly so he doesn't feel he has to look elsewhere.

    Why do men do this???

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  • by glamorgirli on March 18th, 2008

    glamorgirli

    It brings excitement instead of it just being a boring relationship. Sometimes its fun to watch porn with your partner. there is nothing wrong with a partner watching porn. I rather have them do that then cheat with a real person.

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