ANSWERS: 14
  • Get out now!! Should you choose to stay, in the long term your mind, emotions and the way you think will be affected negatively by your g/f and will take alot of work for you to become and think positive again. This relationship appears to be unhealthy and you deserve better than this. Get out!!
  • Ive been in such a relationship. I had a boyfriend who constantly cheated on me and hurt me alot - but still i felt like he is the guy i was gonna marry one day.. But i then thaught about what i deserve, and knew that i was worth more than what he was giving me. I realised that i deserve a better relationship and a better life, thats when and how i decided to GO!
  • 1 corintians 13 I dont care if you have never touched a Bible in your life, just google it. i dont think thats true love your feeling. Its a version of love, but not the version your looking for.
  • Hi, I don't want to make you feel bad but um, abuse is unacceptable. I am female and I'd like to tell your girlfriend to leave you alone. Please don't let her do this to you anymore. It makes me sad just to think about it.
  • If you are attached to someone who constantly abuses you, what you are feeling is not love but emotional dependence. This is a very destructive relationship, and once you do manage to get out of it, you will ask yourself how you could ever have tolerated it. I hope that the next person you meet will be worthy of your love.
  • I agree with the others that you should leave now. But as far as how you decide when it hurts more then it feels good is when you probably will leave.
  • It's verbal and emotional abuse and the only way it's going to stop is if you walk away from it. It sounds as if she is taking advantage of you and taking your love for granted as well. It's easy to get caught up in such abuse, but you HAVE to have the strength to put your foot down and let her know what you are not going to stand for and what your limitations are.
  • Well the good news is that I took everyones advice and I did get out of the relationship, and it's been over a month now. I do wish I would have gotten out sooner but I am just happy to have my sanity back and to look forward to a much better future. Thank you so much to everyone who helped me.
  • Anyone who abuses in any way does not deserve to be with u please move on
  • Interesting question. I was with a girl for three years. I felt like I was in a prison. As I think back on it I wonder what it was that I liked about the relationship. She cheated on me in Oct and then we tried to work it out only for her to move a new guy in. I am rarely talking to her so it is getting easier on me. But, everyone wonders why I even care about her at all anymore. Why do we stay with someone who is not really nice to us? I hope to find that person. I think most people will probably tell you the same thing.
  • The fact that she makes you feel amazing is something which must not be ignored. If she had no feelings for you or if she had not cared for you, she mustn't or couldn't have done that. The fact that she makes you feel horrible can be because something about you bothers her. She could be the kind of person who can't be direct or straight forward when it comes to telling you that you did something which you shouldn't have. I know, it is frustrating when the person does not say what their problem is but want the other to know what is troubling them, but if you know the person enough, it wouldn't be a big issue. This is just one thread of thought, there might be others. At times, it helps to see the relationship standing outside it rather than being on your side. If you really love her and wish to be with her for life then don't leave her unless you have tried everything and nothing you can, else. *wishes luck*
  • well im a girl so my b/f dose that to me all the time.i wanna be with him forever but he hurt me by not talking to me or dosent care about me. but if she dose that do you on a daily basis,then i would just have to let her go.
  • i kinda know how u feel. i didnt do it. however thats up to u
  • Im sorry... The best thing to do would be to speak to her about it. Sometimes honest people, don't see how what they say to others can effect them simply because they feel what they are saying is for your own good even if it is sometimes painful. *Myself included. If SHE needs to learn tact and respect and empathy... Maybe you two are together to show her that? There is a reason why any two people are together... It is what they give to one another and learn from one another in any interaction. Teach her empathy and respect... and how to perhpas tread a little more gently... and you hike your balls up and get a spine! *See... I do it too. I mean no offence.

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