It certainly is quick! Don't worry, 3 minutes is still perfectly normal for a guy your age. What you have to remember is that when you're on your own it doesn't matter how quickly you ejaculate but when you're with a partner 3 minutes will be somewhat underwhelming! I think that masturbation shouldn't just be seen as a quick way to relieve sexual tension, especially at your age. You should use it as a training session for the day when you have intercourse. Not only that, the longer you can go without ejaculating the more pleasure you will get out of it. You need to start holding back. Get to know the feeling of being close to orgasm. When you feel like you're about to ejaculate stop or slow down. Keep moving slowly until the feeling of being close goes away. You'll find you're able to build up to orgasm again. Keep doing this and you'll quickly learn the point at which you know you have to stop. After a while you could start to vary your hand speed so that you're always slightly on the edge without actually going too far. It doesn't sound like much fun but trust me it is! You'll feel better about yourself, you'll enjoy the experience much more and you'll learn that the longer you go the more intense your orgasm will be. And don't forget that your partner will appreciate the time you took to practice! That's the most important thing. Don't just see masturbation as a quick relief, see it as training to have sex!

Also the national average for the length of time for sex is 10 mins. Some girls like it longer some girls want the wam-bam-thank you ma'am. mister_c had good advice too. personally I cum faster when I masterbate then when I have sex, too. Not all the time but a good portion of it. My wife doesn't 'let' me masterbate when she's not around. So when I do break down and do it, it's real fast.

I read in a book about men and women, that the average time for men is two and a half minutes. The book was called "Why Men Don't Listen And Women Can't Read Maps" by Allan Pease.

not bad, but Mr c is right. Use this time as a time to enjoy your body and train yourself to hold off as long as you can, That way when you have real sex, our partner will be much more appreciative and ahell of a lot less froustrated. If you practice edgeing, you will know your body and train your self to hold off cumming. This will give you a lot more pleasure and you almost reach a climax andthen back off and then go at it again. This way you can have the rush of a near climax repeatedly. I have gone for more than an hour getting so close to a climax and then backing off and going at it again. Thn when you do really cum- man it's a rush! Spmetimes you only have a few minutes and something makes you hornier than hell. Then you want ot jack off and be on your way a much better man for it. lol Just feel your body man and work with it, and you will enjoy the experience a hell of a lot more.

usually it goes faster when I masturbate because I do it just to get off, if you're able to last longer, don't worry about it.

When it comes to masturbation, you need to be cautious if you don't want quick cums to mess with your future sex life. It is ok if your can get off that quickly, but you don't want it to turn into your body's natural response. As mention by others, if you do this you will actually probably not even last that long when you are engaged with a lover.

take ginsing i heard it helps but i have never tried it myself.

Don't listen to anybody else, all you need to know is that masturbating is very different from being with a partner. If you cum after 3 minutes while whacking that is fine. Heck, when I have been horny and needed to cum I can rub one out in 30 seconds flat! But being with a partner is very different, and orgasm with a partner is mostly a mental issue rather than a physical one. Basically, dont worry about how quickly you cum while masturbating. It has nothing to do with 'real sex' with a partner.