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by RedDragon on October 12th, 2007

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I ask my bf of 1+ yr 2 move out last wk. I did so b/c sum people told me "facts" bout him cheatin w/girl he been friends with 4ever, or used 2 b friends anyway. Turns out, none of it's true. Feel bad & love him. He says he needs some time. Any hope?

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  • by Kdmichaels on October 12th, 2007

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    Call him and ask him to meet you. Apologize for your actions, and explain why you did what you did. Tell him you're sorry you believed your friends over him, and you would like to make it up to him. If he still wants his time and space, give it to him, but follow up your conversation with a card/letter, reiterating to him how you feel and how much you care for him. If he cares for you, he'll realize you made a mistake and he'll be back.

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  • by Anonymous on July 3rd, 2009

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    yes there is hope but always check it out befor saying enything

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  • by xanz on April 17th, 2009

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    Something's funny here. Hope? i don't know. You hear a rumor and throw him out and he now is thinking things over? he may have the right idea, and not knowing why or what exactly you believed that you now don't it's hard to say. If you just want strokes and to feel better, you may get them here but who can say what will happen between two strangers?

    If i were him and if i was ousted from my home over gossip, i'm not sure i would return. Too likely to happen again in that kind of deal.

    Give him what he asks for but don't sit around and wait. Go live your life and if you do it well it won't be quite as important to get him back. If he decides later he wants to try again, you can make decisions too. Face it then, but now there is nothing much to be done.

    gentle thoughts...

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  • by Gigglez on October 12th, 2007

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    This ones tough but here it goes ...you're going to have to wait to see if he wants you back. The ball is in his court. Never acuse anyone one unless you see it with your eyes. Those poeple that gave you the wrong info mess up your relationship. This will make you realize that a relationship is between you and that other person. Next time tell your friends to mind there buisness. I hope he sees that you made a mistake and takes you back. I understand you were just trying to protect yourself but you have to see it for yourself. Keep your head up mama!!! =)

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  • by Tussen on October 12th, 2007

    Tussen

    You really should have had an open and honest discussion with him when you were given this information from your "friends". Having said that, why would you trust friends over a long term boyfriend/partner? If there were trust issues there regardless of the truth behind this series of events it might just be best to move on.

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  • by RedDragon on October 12th, 2007

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    I agree that I should've talked to him about it. The "facts" were so astounding at the time that there didn't seem to be any room left for an explanation. And he was so angry at his friends (yea HIS friends) and felt betrayed by me. There weren't trust issues, but we had been coming out of a rocky patch when this all went down. I told him I'm sorry and I love him. All he says is he needs some time. He's going through some other stuff right now as well. I don't want to pester him with calls and texts. But I don't want him to forget me either. Plus I have a 4 yr old son (not with him) who constantly asks why he isn't there anymore.

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  • by sirwalcottthe3rd on June 3rd, 2010

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    how do you know its not true?

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