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My honest is No, but you are been a chicken!! If you like this girl ask her out!! (as long as you are both single of course) The worst thing she can say is no, and what difference will that really make to your life - none really!! but if she says yes.....
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Not selfish but you are not being very assertive either. This 'friend' sounds like a predator, unless all the girls and boys in your social group are very promiscuous. You also have to realize that being attracted to someone doesn't give you any more 'rights' to that person's company that anyone else who is also attracted to that person. I am assuming tha you are all teenagers; this is a most difficult age for approaching someone as you have not much practise at your appraoches being rejected. Look at it this way - if she is interested in you, then your approaching her first and getting a positive response might just be what it takes for her to reject this other guy's efforts and you will have saved her from being another notch on his belt. On the other hand, if she is interested in the other guy and not you, being rejected by her is not such a big loss, is it? And it really wouldn't be anything personal, either.
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