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You did nothing wrong, if you started dating the new guy after you break up with ur b/f, then I see no need for you to worry, u own him nothing, he's acting like a loser.
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I'm in exactly the same position. I broke up with my ex as he really didn't appreciate me. Anyway started seeing my ex ex. OK stupid but realised it's not what I want at all, my ex has proved how much he loves me and I am giving him a second chance. I'm sickly happy. Only thing is, I'm going to OZ for 3 months in two weeks, he is so understanding. He has said that what ever happens out there stays out there but he will be there for me 100% when I get back and drop anyone if he see's anyone. I just feel so guilty about sleeping with my ex ex. The 3rd time me and my ex had sex, he had problems because he couldn't get it out of his head but he wants to make it work. Just making me feel so sick, will this ever go away? I know I haven't done anything wrong but I hate him feeling like that. I'm scared he might throw it all away again, I can't be hurt a second time.
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I would say to him "Fine, lets just say for arguments sake that I DID cheat- would you still want to try and make this work?" If his answer is yes, then ask him what exactly he wants you to do about it. If you're happy about whatever he requests then try it- if you're not or if he says he doesn't know, perhaps its time to wind this one down for a bit. YOu don't want to spend your whole relationship on a guilt trip.
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He's a jerk iif he cannot get over this and move on.
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Depending on how quickly you got with the other guy. If you waited a little bit, its alright. If you broke up with your boyfriend and immediately got with the other guy, you must have not cared much about your first guy. It is pretty hard to have to deal with the image of another guy being on your girl. I had to deal with it and it honestly ate me up inside. Call me a loser for it but I just couldn't handle it.
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I find this incredibly funny, it's like the situations reversed on something that happened with me and an ex. (Of course I really was an insensitive ass) Just lay it out flat, tell him that it happened, and that if he can't get over IT than you will get over HIM. Thats the way I approached the situation, it worked fine.
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Im in the same vote. I broke up with my bf after i found out he was calling this chick behind my back i had full proof and he still denied it. I finally got it out of him. I was so angry my dad had to come get me he even heard me so we are over and that i didnt want to be with him anymore. Not long after that i was a mess a head case i started going out every weekend drinking not being able to make decisions and just confused. I started to hang with this other dude and regretfully slept with him twice. I feel he took advantage of my venruble state. I got back with my ex in feb all this stuff happened if jan i had no contact whats so ever when i decided i wanted to be back with my ex. I didnt tell my ex what happened but he found out by some other dude Now he thinks i cheated on but i fucking didnt
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