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I'm also very very sad because I only want to be with her. I want to marry her one day. I'm 26, she's 25. We did have a break last year for a few months because she wanted space. We have been going out since I was 20. My gf told me not to meet this other girl because it makes her uncomfortable and I didn't until this night when I went to say hi to her because I wanted to say ho to her the last time after which I would never meet her again. My gf found out and she's very upset and she has decided to break up with me. HELP!!!!
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She's lost her trust in you. If she told you not to go, but you did anyway without telling her you were going to. It's really devistating to a girl to find out her guy went out of his way to put another girl before her. She's most certainly jealous and was afraid that you were interested in this girl. The fact that you went to see this girl she begged you not to just verified her fears, and now she wants out before she is betrayed anymore. Women see things on a different level then men. If you truly did go to see this other girl for completely innocent reasons the only thing you can do is sit her down and talk to her. It'll be really hard for her to believe you, but if you really want her to stay you have to try. Tell her you love her, that you know she's the one, that you see yourselves together for a long time, and that you never meant to hurt her. Explain the reasons you went to see the other girl, or if you recognize that it was a completly wrong thing to do, tell her. Talking it out is really the only thing that will help a girl.
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Hi Pianolover, thank you for the answer, its really helpful. Actually this happened on Friday night, and she asked me not to see her forever. I called her, texted her but she doesn;t want to talk to me. I am very sad because we were so happy before this. I have not contacted her since saturday just so that she can cool down but its very hard for me. I feel like I have lost a friend and a companion. I told her all the things you have said above on the phone but she was still angry. Please tell me what to do. I'm thinking that I've had enough of all this drama with other girls and stuff and I want to settle down with her. I'm thinking of asking her to meet me on thursday and I'l apologise and ask her to marry me. Please tell me if this is the right thing to do. I've been with her for a very long time and I think she's the one.
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I think asking her to meet with you is a good idea, but please, do NOT ask her to marry you on the same day. It is going to take a while for her to regain her trust in you and if you spring that question on her when she is contemplating giving you another chance she is going to be completely overwhelmed. This is not going to be a quick and easy fix. Giving her time to cool down was a good idea. Giving her time to think gave her the opportunity to think about what happened and she may even have some questions to ask you that are on her mind. Answer them completely and honestly. Show her you only care for her and will put her first in whatever you do from now on. She has to believe this, and if you are planning on asking her to marry you, you better believe this yourself.
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