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by Anonymous on October 5th, 2007

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I am a female, is there anyway i can get my sex drive to go higher? ive tried everything to help me "get in the mood" for my husband, but it just seems like my body never coperates

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  • by George R. McCasland on June 12th, 2009

    George R. McCasland

    Have you tried in the morning?

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    Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
    http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece

    The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the temporary storage capacity of your brain is getting full. This is why it's so important to get at least 8 hours of sleep, or 10 hours if under the age of 30 for males and 24 for females. That's when you reach full maturity.

    At night, during that period of time between when you go to sleep and start dreaming, your brain's ability to absorb data is shut down and everything in temporary storage is transferred to permanent storage through the creation of chemical bonds, and synaptic connectors, as needed. While you are dreaming, the data is being categorized.

    At night, your body washes out all the lactic acid that has built up in your muscles during the day, replacing it with oxygen.

    At night, your immune system goes into limited standby mode to regenerate and repair injuries, such as sore and strained muscles.

    At night, prior to the ages of full maturity, all growth and development takes place. Guys, this means that until age 30, if you are not getting the proper amount of sleep, you are not going to reach your full potential length with your tally whacker. That might be useful in the morning. And yes, that contributes to a guy’s woody.

    When you wake up, provided you got a proper amount of sleep, your body and your brain are refreshed and ready for the day's activities, so why not start out with a little morning exercise before getting out of bed?

    I hope this answers your question.

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  • by luscious on March 6th, 2009

    luscious

    Maybe your not really attracted to him anymore.Not just sexually but if his attitude stinks that can be a major turn off.

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  • by mrrw on February 11th, 2009

    mrrw

    Do you climax when you have sex? Do you masturbate?

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  • by redwater on December 16th, 2007

    redwater

    Work out. Exercise is an amazing sex drive enhancer. It increases your serotonin, which can help elevate your mood as well. For some reason, exercise improves sex hormones. It also does great things for your self esteem, about how you look, about how you feel about yourself.

    You can start slow--walking 10" a day, 3x / week.

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  • by Da One and Only on October 5th, 2007

    Da One and Only

    How old are you??? I am asking because I just might be in the same boat??? Care to share experiences and advice?

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  • by Porter on June 12th, 2009

    Porter

    Umm......Lets see here...... Try watching some porn togeather. This might seem gross or wrong but try going to a swingers club or something like that.

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  • by Fashionista on January 21st, 2009

    Fashionista

    Have the same problem sometimes, i think its common in women. try these, they help me. Watch a movie (or part of one) thats provocative, it doesnt have to be sleezy. Excercising makes u feel more confident (even if u dont do alot), so try that.. When your sitting down and not really doing anything flex ur PC muscles (down there muscles) over and over .. in about 5-ish minutes u'll probably be worked up. during the day subtley flirt with people, or imagine a situation where u would flirt with someone you know.. if actually doing it makes you uncomfortable. Umm and watch short porn clips hehe.. www.youporn.com works like a charm. good luck! ;)

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  • by jenny on July 31st, 2009

    jenny

    i know wat you mean ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i just can not seem to get in the mood with him anymore. ive been with other guys in the past and i get turned on super easy but i dont wanna leave him i just miss that excited not knowing wats gonna happen feeling that i dont seem to get with him anymore. any ideas?

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  • by FISH on July 28th, 2008

    FISH

    Masterbate more often. Put on porn- Seeing others have sex is always stimulating.

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  • by wthing8 on October 22nd, 2008

    wthing8

    Try spending less time on the computer and more time 'on the job'

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  • by Sarah8883 on October 22nd, 2010

    Sarah8883

    I can recommend a reputable pharmacy (Female Viagra) http://pills24.org Service and quality are very good.

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  • by conceptualclarity on June 4th, 2010

    conceptualclarity

    Read the book The Orgasmic Diet.

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  • by InNeedofEducation on October 15th, 2007

    InNeedofEducation

    tell your husband you're going to try a proven libido enhancement method that (unfortunately) requires his assistance
    you are going to imagine or make up a sexual situation
    (remember you are doing this with your husband so he has to be in there somewhere)
    now you are going to describe
    what everything looks like
    what you are doing
    what the other(s) are doing
    how you feeling during that sexual experience or fantasy
    how other people in the experience or fantasy are feeling
    and you are going to do all this
    txting over the phone …not calling not talking only txting
    keeping in mind some companies only let you send 160 characters per txt

    now you both have to agree not to show these to anyone so you feel safe enough to let your imagination go crazy
    trust the process … and you’ll get to the point when you hear the sound your phone makes when you are receive a txt you’ll cum

    this is classic Pavlovian conditioning….it works!

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  • by lady 12 on November 7th, 2007

    lady 12

    try sex pills

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  • by Anonymous on January 28th, 2008

    Anonymous

    buy horny goat weed for 10$ at wal mart it takes a few days for it to set in but when it does I attacked my husband lol. O and some pot wouldn't be a bad idea either marijuana always brings out the good times in people lol.

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  • by james the first on January 28th, 2008

    james the first

    You may want to have your testosterone checked although that is a rare cause. The usual is relationship problems. OR conversly are taking any medications, like SSRI's that can reduce desire. Talk to your doc for medical causes. And then a counselor for the drive problems.

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  • by conceptualclarity on June 4th, 2010

    conceptualclarity

    Lots of things. Herbs are great, especially maca. Read up on it at lef.org. There are lots of specialty female orgasm and female libido pills, but they're usually pricey. You might find one or two herbs or DHEA will do the trick.

    The more you go ahead and consent to have sex with your husband, the more your libido-raising hormones will increase and the more easily you will orgasm. But if you're a once a week or less gal, your libido will stay depressed. That's what research shows. Not the only source on this : http://themarriagebed.com/pages/biology/female/frequency.shtml

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