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by lisalu on January 26th, 2006

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My boyfriend asked for a break and also mentioned doing steroids. He's been having mood swings and displaying aggressiveness. I love him too much to let him go. What should I do?

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  • by curious on January 20th, 2008

    curious

    if he's on steroids id be telling him bye. there are more fish in the ocean.

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  • by swheaty on December 28th, 2008

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    If he is doing steroids, get away! You say he is already showing some of the signs of what steroids do. Maybe that is why he asked for a break, because he may be afraid of his ownself right now & possiblity of what he may do. I know its hard when you love someone, but this someone you love now, will not be the same someone you fell in love with!! Give him a break and let him know you are there for him. And, if he is the kind that will listen, try to talk to him about the dangers of steroids. But its better to let him go, if this is the path he chooses, then to be in an aggressive relationship. Good Luck

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  • by Possum on January 20th, 2008

    Possum

    agree with others-bag him

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  • by Borderlinux on January 20th, 2008

    Borderlinux

    Dump his ass before it takes him throwing you through a wall to get you to open your fucking eyes.

    I realize love is blind but holy hell.....when it's only one-way you're *REALLY* opening yourself up to be gutted, slain, and slung to the sewer. Is that what you want? That's where you're headed.

    Leave....or reap what you sow. Your choice.

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  • by mtndewman44 on December 28th, 2008

    mtndewman44

    If you think you can handle the drug use(steroids) then take this into consideration.

    To make a personal boundaries,to protect yourself and your feelings,to set a rule as to how far you are willing to go.

    http://joy2meu.com/Personal_Boundaries.htm

    This site has helped me and many of my friends to achieve a solid groundwork for our personal feelings and the need to set those boundaries.

    I hope this helps you to do the right thing.

    Ken

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  • by laaayla on February 8th, 2010

    laaayla

    I guess the big question is...why is he doing steroids? I think you should back off the relationship until he decides to get off the steroids. He may be afraid of what he could do to you. That's dangerous.

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  • by moobaa - feel like a duck on December 28th, 2008

    moobaa - feel like a duck

    steroids are just as bad as illegal street drugs hunny. if not worse! they can turn a tame, honest man into someone that would rather beat your face with a toy train as look at you. get away from him as it sounds like he has already started and when he comes crawling back be thankful you got well rid as i am sure u will have a much better man by then xxx.

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  • by Arisztid on December 28th, 2008

    Arisztid

    Ditto what the others said. Dump him before you get hurt.

    I usually do not post answers that just say "ditto" but this is important.

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  • by leonardbiblitz on January 15th, 2010

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    Start by asking him what he hopes to achieve with the steroids, which are very dangerous and which produce precisely the side effects you describe and then some. See if you can get him to come over some night to watch The Wrestler. This might assist. And/or provide a copy of the NYT Magazine article in which a steroid user hoping to scope kinky new sex partners with his new build was arrested and jailed for his online efforts! Need more? Visit ASKBiblitz.com

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