A condom decreases sensitivity, that's why so many men don't want to have to use them . . . Yeah, any excuse will do! That is if you don't give a damn about yourself or anyone else! That being said: If you're having a problem with premature ejaculation, relax! Take your time and don't be overly anxious once you get going. Spend more time on foreplay, discover your partner and find out what they like. Ease into your orgasm slowly by giving them pleasure first. When you begin intercoarse, if you feel yourself cumming, slow down or stop for a few minutes. Add to your experience, by practicing alone, when you don't have to worry about it. Discover yourself, masturbate, play with lube and condoms. Take time to figure out what feels best, how far you can push yourself, what you can withstand. Find out how to give yourself the best most satisfying pleasures, then share it with someone. Only experience will change how you feel about how you feel!

You can try a topical cream containing an anisthetic such as lidocaine or benzocaine. It can reduce sensitivity and delay orgasm when applied to the head and bottom side of the shaft of your penis a few minutes before sexual activity. You can try one of the many for sale at adult stores such as Sta-Hard or Prolong. You can even use Anal-Eze as it contains the same ingredients. You should understand that there are possible down sides to this course of treatment, though. It is possible to apply too much and lose so much sensation that you have difficulty maintaining your erection. Also, if you are having sex with a woman the cream can run off and transfer onto her vagina and clitorus, which can decrease the pleasure she feels.

Well, let's see, Oh, well aside from the initial sensitivities, there would be the sledgehammer, and meat tenderizing mallets...huh, oh, you want it with no permanent after effects or disfigurements, gotcha! as stated, the Caine topicals will desensitize just about anything, as any to whom have had a nassy experience at the dentists office. It's the pre-swabbed pink stuff they administer to the gum before injecting another Cain derivative in liquid form into the gums. One can try even, Ora-gel, I know, I know, I can hear all the side-bar funnies now, but is nothing but benzocaine, with an inert non-petroleum base. Consider both of which is a good thing, as we do not want any Vaseline like substance on either of the intended’s pee pee areas. Then there is Lanacaine, in the yellow tube most use for sore abrasions to the skin, as well as strained muscles. Whatever one uses, please, just dab a bit on the finger, and then apply to the smallest of areas on your mighty thrust-O-matic, as we dont want to slather the whole pile-driver before we know if there could be an allergic, or sensitive substance reaction. apply to the skin on the upper area, as if there is a reaction, we dont want Willie’s waggin to continue to irritate due to it rubbin all day against the boys. Wait about 15 minutes, and if all's well, go for it dude! One more thing, it's the need for longevity we want, so please remember to rub in which ever you have chosen to use, AND apply it well in advance of placing your tool in to it's box for the night, because if you numb her up, you could be pumpin for days before you get there for her! BUT remember, not to apply before the foreplay, due to us not wishing our intended to have a droopy-dog mouth due to her wishing for a taste of the brave explorer before adventuring into her nether regions! I had a reverse experience, meaning that my first girl had bought some Semicid spermacidal Ointment, and applied it before we got into bed, and, well, while I was down searching for a new taste sensation, I suddenly felt FIRE, OH MY GOD! Fire on my lips, fire on my tongue, fire down my throat as I did swallow a couple times, Damn that swallowing! Needless to say, it took an hours of mouth rinsing before all was well again. Hey Habanero, you ain't nuttin compared to the ole Semi's-juice, I'll tell ya! Good luck, and Peace!

Cleanser , ike ajax or comet works well, so does baking soda except the sodium in baking soda can irritate. Place cleanser in hand and apply just as though you were lubricating it. Rubb gently back and forth along the shaft and head. Do this twice a day. Sensitivity will decrease, allowing you to last approximately 20 minutes.

you could try double condoms I am told that works for both issues