No. I don't think so. I think this girl knows her limits.

I didn't have room to fit the rest. She told me that the reason she didn't stop him on the spot is because the kid is very socially awkward. She told me that she honestly didn't want to embarass him on the spot. So she said to him that she "needed a drink" and went to her friend to tell him.

No, that's some idiot taking liberties he should not have. The fact that she walked away and had someone tell him to buzz off shows she's faithfull.

Alright, I was just curious. It was something that was bothering me. Even though this didn't happen with me at the time (her last bf), I still wanted an opinion on this.

How about this one. She has guy friends that get touchy feely with her when they are drunk. I guess they grope her once in awhile or whatnot. She says she basically lets it slide. She doesn't get angry with them, she merely just pushes them away or tells them to stop. She doesn't get angry though. She said it doesn't really bother her that they do it (but she assured me that she doesn't enjoy it). She told me she knows how her guy friends work and she doesn't think much of it. This sort of bothered me.

I just don't get why she didn't stop dancing before the end of the song, making him stop... She didn't cheat, but she didn't so the right thing either. It's like lying by not saying anything.

no ! and reading the rest of your question she deserves a pat on the back for thinking about someone elses welfare

Seems to me she has her head screwed on right - she judged the situation and dealt with it. Good for her. You however need to learn why you felt the need to throw her actions here for scrutiny. If you trust her, it is a non issue, if you don't trust her she is wrong for you and you should deal with it or end it. For Petes sake - show her some support

On the contrary, I think she handled a socially difficult situation with poise. Saying No politely is alway hard, particularly when the advance is not verbal. I think she behaved in a very ladylike manner, and I commend her.

no. she probably should've left beforehand but at the same time when you're in a dance or something and you really don't want to make a scene but you don't want anybody to think that's actually ok, i think she handled it as best as possible.

First... Use the "Add a Comment" button immediately after the answer to which you are responding. It will open a box in which you can enter your comment. Otherwise, you are entering it in the ANSWER box, someone may flag your responses to other answers as NONSENSE. and they may be removed. No... The girl wasn't cheating. It sounds (based on further information in your answer) that she knows her friends, and doesn't want to embarrass them, even if they ARE drunk. If she stops them from going too far, she's set limits on what's acceptable to her. If you don't feel those limits are strict enough, you need to talk to her, and ask her that if it happens when she's your girl, you would prefer she stop it earlier. However, if you've ever done anything similar when drunk and the girl made a scene, how did YOU feel? And, if not, what if you had and she had? Whether she likes the attention, the sensuality of it, or what, she's not reciprocating (by what you've said - which is a GOOD thing), she's stopping things before they get too far (which is also a good thing), and been very understanding about how alcohol affects her drunk friends. Again, if you don't want it to go that far, you need to discuss with her how to stop it, realizing that she doesn't want to make a scene, or embarrass her friends. Good luck. ;-)

uhm no...y wud u even consider that cheating? now when you make your bf leave 15 min early just so you can go dance with another guy and proceed to kiss HIS neck....yeah THATS cheating. hahaha

Why was she dancing with some guy? And why didn't she walk away when he started kissing her neck? It sounds awfully fishy to me. But if the story is true, at least she had someone tell the guy she has a boyfriend. You two might want to agree on some boundaries so this sort of thing doesn't happen again.

That's NOT cheating!!! All she wanted to do was dance with somebody. He's the one who made moves on her. She walked away from them.

nope

I think you should be proud of her. At the end of the day she's a human being with human instincts, and it takes control to walk away from those kind of situations. So many girls wouldnt. And also that she got her friend to set the record straight is good too.

Wait! She walked away AFTER the song ended? Does that mean she allowed this guy to kiss her neck while they danced? If she did...then that is cheating. If she left ASAP, then it's not.