I found a letter from my boyfriend to his ex girlfriend saying that he feels like his life has less without her, should I tell him that I saw it?
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If it's very recent, oh hells yeah.
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oh yeah. If you can't talk to him now, how will you talk to him ever?
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yeah...but write more it sounds like an interesting situation but yea tell him and let him no how oyu feel about it
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If you found it without snooping, then yes. If not, start a conversation with him about past relationships; use some of the same expressions you read in the letter and see how he reacts.
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Yep. It's better to talk it out now that to try and keep it to yourself without getting upset. Things you keep quiet about now will only hurt the both of you more in the long run.
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if its recent, den definetly. if its old , the no. unless your uncertain of the love he might have for you. but if u feel that he really loves you, and thats in the past, and hes proven how he feels for you more then once, then i see no reason why you should bother bringing up the past. i tell my gf this all the time, i told my ex's i loved them and i ment it, but ive come to learn what love really is with my current gf, which just shows me what i felt for my ex's was crap. maybe thatll explain what i mean.
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You poor thing, that must be an awful feeling to see something like that! If the letter was recent (since you have been dating him), then you definitely need to ask him about it. You deserve more than a guy who sulks after a lost love, while keeping you on a string. If the note is old (written well before you started dating), then just put the thought aside and try to enjoy your time with him!
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A letter that he didn't send to her? And a letter that you don't know when was written? See. This is why people shouldn't just "find" things like this. You put yourself in a real bind. You're gonna have to bring it up, and, hope he isn't pissed at you. Basically.
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Talk to him but be carefull how beacause this might be u proving to him doubt and so then ur screwed!
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was it written while you two were together or before? If you know it was written while you two were together then I'd leave his ass...find someone who's life is more because you are in it!
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It depends on the date on the letter.
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Now you have seen it - how on earth are you going to carry on as normal and say nothing? It will be eating away at you and then one day, you two will have an argument over something completely different and before you know it, you will be saying "Well why don't you ask your ex if you are so unhappy and feel less without her". It's going to happen you know, so before it does and you can contain it no more, when was the letter written? It is current? You should also ask why, if the letter was for her, why he still has it in his possession - perhaps he wrote it and then thought better of it? Is it a copy of the original (lots of people do this) and, last but not least, where was it - laying around under something but not purposely concealed or, did you have to employ and airport scanning machine to locate it when he was out of the house?
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