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by Anonymous on January 25th, 2006

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I was drunk and this girl and I started talking dirty to each other and I grabbed one of her breasts. We didn't have sex or kiss. Should I tell my fiancé even though 3 years ago she cheated on me 3 times?

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  • by Answers101 on April 13th, 2006

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    Two wrongs don't make a right!

    Bottom line: Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy; however, in this case, what good, if any, will it do to discuss something with your fiance that happened that long ago?

    If anything, it will only sever your relatiionship.

    Don't do it again, and stay together.

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  • by Anonymous on January 30th, 2006

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    Ok, well I told her already and guess wut, she wans't mad at all. Though it never led to kissing nor sex, it was still wrong grabbing the gal's breast and talking dirty, I still say I kinda cheated. Her response was "Oh, it's ok, u were just drunk, no big deal ok" and she smile.I must be lucky cuz any gal would be mad if I told this. I know wut yall must be thinking, why I'm I still with her and why is she my fiancee if she cheated on me 3 times, well that was 3 yrs ago, she hasn't cheated on me again, we're ok now.

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  • by manjeet on September 30th, 2009

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    Just tell her all that after all you were drunk. She will feel guilty that you are so faithful to her that you told her that you touched the girl and told me.

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  • by yahoot on October 1st, 2009

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    You should be honest, but you should also go examine your own feelings.

    It is disturbing that you feel the need to point out that she cheated on you 3 times.
    -Are you looking for a way to get even? hurt her like she hurt you? ?
    -have you really forgiven her or will you hold this over her forever?

    If you are trying to get over her cheating, you need to decide whether you can truly put it behind you. If you can't, you should a new girlfriend because this issue will likely haunt your relationship until it breaks it.

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  • by bernzie on October 20th, 2009

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    The truth will eventually come out so your best off being honest about it! People are allowed to make mistakes, like you say, shes made 3!!!

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  • by farseer on September 19th, 2009

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    hell no, if she cheated on you 3 times you have no reason to feel bad for touching some other girls boob.

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on April 14th, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    You were drunk. Get over it and don't get out of control like that again.

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  • by Joe-Speedy on January 29th, 2006

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    Sure! Tell her. She'll get turned on by it.

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  • by Zhitbag on September 28th, 2008

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    Sure. After all, she cheated on you before. Now why exactly are you still with some chick who cheated on you three times before? What's that all about? It seems like you like the abuse, so, it's only fair that you spread the love. Let your chick know what happened with this drunk girl so that she can know what it feels like to be betrayed. I think it's perfectly healthy. Just make sure you save the drunk chick's number so you have someone to call after your girlfriend breaks up with you.

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  • by Anonymous on September 30th, 2008

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    Honesty is the best policy.

    But if you are still watching the clock and keeping score, are you really ready to be married?

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  • by fluffylucy on February 14th, 2011

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    I love the way everyone has to say they were drunk to justify having sex lol.

    Whether to tell your fiance is obviously up to you but if you sometimes like to play around and she sometimes likes to do the same, you could be honest with each other and develop a great model for a relationship that gives you both pleasure, security and freedom. it is of course a risk but sounds a million times better than the norm.

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