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She's not ur best friend then, if I was ur friend I would have never be the messenger and instead I would be encouraging u to tell ur b/f, if for some reason u didn't tell, I woudln't tell, I would mind my business. U got a real bad no good best friend. As for ur b/f, since he found out elsewhere and not from u, then u got a lot to work on, he's not gonna see u the same way no more, but most important is to tell him wut made u cheat in the first place and how to convince him u don't do it again.
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By the way, I was also wondering if after this are u still gonna talk to ur best friend, I wouln't talk to her ever again if I were you. Friends aren't suppost to tell on others.
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I know shes not a true best friend.. she use to be.. i dont know why she did this..i never did anything to her... My bf forgave me today... but my so called best friend is still giving me shit.. telling all my teachers im not going to school anymore b/c i dont have any friends...So no i guess i won't be talking to her anymore. cuz she won't talk to me..
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If I were you, I would have been so mad, that I would have SLAP her in the face and punch her. Don't listen to wut she says, do NC (no contact with her ever again). Those other friends who aren't taking to u are BS also, they never were friends. Good to hear he forgave u, remember don't do it again. By the way, he did tell him the reason u cheated, I guess.
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Well, I was just saying wut I would do if I were on her shoes and a friend of mine betray me like that. Yes, cheating is bad, but snicking lets you no where either. I would also like to add that I'm not a guy.
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She did the right thing... cheating ruins a relationship..the trust is gone. He should have the balls to get rid of you
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I am a person that knew of one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend. I wam better friends with him or thought i was. When i told him, he told her among other friends and so far, everyone has KILLED THE MESSENGER! i dont regret telling him, but i wasnt thinking it would get back to her. But to answer your question....you should really think because there is a possibility that you are just wanting to be with him now because you feel guilty and care about what others may thik of you. Just remember, this too....will pass.
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very simple, next time.. don't cheat! i think you should say you are sorry and move on. The damage is done, live with the consequences.
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She's a bitch, don't sweat it. I can tell my best friends anything and they don't go around saying shit. Plus she shouldn't give you all this, I cheated on my bf and mine are trying to help me not hurt me.
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What do you expect? I know there are people who won't agree with me, but...not only did you cheat, you dared to drag someone (someone you call your BEST friend, mind you!) down to your level and tried to make it so that person wouldn't TELL. This is not something you should have dragged your friend into in the first place. The girl my boyfriend cheated with told people that she cheated with my boyfriend and not to tell me. You know what? I'm not her friend anymore....and I have absolutely no respect for the people who knew and didn't say a word unless they encouraged her and/or my boyfriend to tell me. My boyfriend told no one except the main girl the girl he cheated with told so that she could get his opinion on it. He was fully prepared to take this secret to the grave with him. In the end, I have more respect for him out of the two. So yeah...people may say that your friend is the bad friend, but honestly, I think it is you who is the bad friend...
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You deserved it for going behind your boyfriends back like that. He cares for you enough to not want to dump you after you did that to him so why don't you show him the same love and respect back...
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And heres what you learned from this. 1) Dont cheat. 2) Dont bring others into your affairs. 3) If you were in fact seeking advice dont talk to her again. 4) Choose better friends. 5) Be the grownup one, move on, ignore those children who shove their noses into your life. And your 'best friend' probably told him in the hopes that he'd dump you and date her. Drop her and those little immature monkeys who have their heads so far up their asses that they assume your business is theirs. Good luck.
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Well first off it sounds like you friend has an agenda, but you have to see in your heart because if you cheat it probably is not what's best for you. And if that's the case then break it off. If not, apologize and keep your head up time is a great antidote.
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Um first of all, next time keep your legs closed. Second, you should have told your boyfriend instead of your friend. If he wont dump you, you should let him go so he can find someone who he deserves and will treat him right
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There is no way to make amends. Why would you even consider this? I do not blame his friends for ignoring you. He should dump you. You cannot be trusted. You will do this again. your boyfriend knows this. his friends know this. you know this.
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do you love him?
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If you genuinely want to try & stay together then the only avenue open to you is one of complete honesty. You have to accept that if he's prepared to give it another go then there may be a number of hoops for you to jump through. Basically whatever it takes to rebuild the trust. On a secondary note, I'd also give serious thought to getting some new friends, cos your best friend sounds like a right shit. Are you quite sure she doesnt have a crush on your bf? I cant think of any other reason she'd betray you for him.
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I think your friend wants to bang your man. If that is your best friend she would not tell. As far as him getting over it. Time will tell. You will need to rebuild trust. I would watch your girl. She wants your man! She and I would NOT be friends anymore. Good Luck.
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If he didn't dump you for cheating on him, it leads me to believe that perhaps he's cheating on you as well.
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First, ignore all the self-righteous people who clearly have never made a mistake in their lives. You told your best friend about a mistake you had made, and obviously weren't sure how to deal with... it was not the right thing, and not acceptable for her to go and tell your boyfriend. If you and your boyfriend want to work it out and stay together, go ahead and try to do that without worrying about what any of the other people think. The ones worth having as friends will come around quickly and all will be good... some may not come around, and they're probably not worth having as friends. Forgiveness is very important for all of us. We all make many mistakes in life. Good friends know that, even if it takes them some time to work through it.
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good for her. people who cheat deserve what they get
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You must ask your self why you cheated on him...Perhaps you are not into him and stay cause he is a safe bet..Why does he want to keep you after knowinig what you did, perhaps he had cheated on you and you don't know it..Or will do it later on..
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time will tell.
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most people are caught because they talk too much. you should have never told your best friend. now just make the most of it. be loyal to him but if you cant be loyal or you dont love him then end the relationship
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"your" friends won't talk to you? i don't understand that...it's not like you cheated on them...oh well, we reap what we sow.
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