dress in kinky clothes

sometimes dirty talk or some ear action. other times, the direct approach works. ; )

kiss him, full on snog or on his neck. apparently i have 'sexy eyes' when im in the mood so i normally jus have to flash this suggestive look and hes all over me lol. you'll soon master a look like this, im sure u prob already hav one actually, its just in the way you smile at him wen your in the mood.

Just do what you like, and see how he feels about it. If you just can't figure it out, ask HIM instead of us. An open dialog is especially important in any relationship, sexual or otherwise.

men really seem to like it if u get in ur pjs and hopefully they are in boxers and u rub ur booty on there privates. SEEMS to be a HUGE turn on.

ICE ON HIS SENSITIVES

Funny, laying in the bed with him seems to be all it takes for me and him.

Find out where his crazy zones are...........mine (other then the obvious) are my armpits and feet.

you know that head bob you did when he asked if you wanted a diamond ring??? keep that motion in mind & everything will be fine

tickle his erroneous zones with a feather

Tell him that you can't wait to marry him and spend the rest of your lives together.

Breathe.

get an obvious hard on.

In my experience (and I'm pretty old) just being there pretty well does it.

turn on your side and strut that cleavage...only if its a new relationship...I find that my boobs just don't do it for my guy anymore...I'm losing it or something. lol

I dont have to anything, LOL. Flash him!!!

tell him you want him in every hole you have !

Keep laying there.

When I lie in bed with my girlfriend, all she has to do is start running her hands through my hair casually. That's about all I need.

if im horny and hes not i usually get on top and start kissing him from the head slowly working my way to his groin and then wen i get there i kiss around his penis onthe thighs and balls { if hes had a shower} and then by then hes begging me to take him

Since I use this "subtle" technique every time, it's gotten harder. He knows EXACTLY what I'm doing and prolongs it to see he far he can get. (Never gets real far, though...lol.) Anyway, but...I get comfortable (even if HE needs to be repositioned...lol), enough to where I COULD just fall asleep and still be okay... But, I start running my fingertips, gently up and down his side, with my arm around him. Then, I start going down to his hip and up, rubbing his neck. When his breathing pattern begins to change, my head goes up near the other side of his neck and I just breathe on it, sometimes kissing and lightly sucking on it. Then, my hand goes down further and I start rubbing on him (makin' sure he's "ready"...ya know?). Then...it's ON! Yeahhh!! That's about the furthest it's gotten, so far, but if it needs to go further, I'm sure it wouldn't be difficult to figure out what the next steps should be... I just think and figure out what I would like, ANY time I'm trying new things. I strongly believe that in most cases, if I think I'd like something...he probably would, too. (Well...most things.) Knowing what makes YOU feel good is a good indicator as to what YOU could do to make someone else feel good, even IF you may not be quite sure what he likes all the time. You could actually TEACH him what he likes...lol! ;-) Try it and let me know, if you feel comfortable. I like knowing if certain things work on other people, too. Hope I was of some help..

read one issue of cosmo mag, it's the bible of seduction

My GF knows how much I love her breasts. She will lean over me and tells me to nurse on her breasts. I am hard as a rock in a minute. Shes not that big but she has these long nipples.... Starting sucking on my cock actually takes longer!

Blow/breath down the side of his neck and gradually start breathing heavier as is your doing it, then start kissing him and slide your hand down his pants Bingo in the bag For a kinky bonus get some earniblin and get some dirty words in his ear

I was told by a few ladies what works for the man also works for the lady! Please read this and try some, many or all of the suggestions. You never make love TO that person. You make love WITH that person. For the sake of the younger folks who read these answers, I won't get very graphic. I'm sure you can use your imagination. I AM A VERY fortunate man. I had the wonderful experience of seeing my parents, both sets of grandparents and all my aunts and uncles behave as though they were constantly on their honeymoons with their spouses. They would hold hands, cuddle, hug, kiss, whisper things to each other, say, "I love you, _____!" and carry-on like many young people, who are in love, do in public. They would smile at each other and tell each other how beautiful, wonderful and thoughtful she was and how thoughtful, wonderful and handsome he was! WOW! What a great set of romance role models! No, I never watched as they were making love in the most intimate way, but I DID see and learn from their examples and inter-actions with their spouses! As far as I know, no one ever cheated on the other. That being said, one day my mother's father got in the car with me. I was driving him to the track. He "LOVED those ponies"! He was well-aware of the relationship I had with the lady I was dating and who would one day be my bride. He said words similar to these: I know your father told you what to do, but did he ever tell you how to do it? I answered, "No". He went on to say, "I'm going to tell you some things I don't think you'll learn from any one else. When you have sex, make love or whatever you want to call it, you don't behave like most other men. Most men are just interested in one thing and one thing only - satisfying their own selfish selves. That's NOT the way to do it. You have to make absolutely certain she is satisfied. No matter how long it takes or what you have to do, you have to do whatever it takes to make sure she does what she likes to do best. You HAVE TO satisfy her first. Your brain is the most important sex organ. Your brain controls what happens downstairs. When you aren't sure about what to do or how to do it, ask her what she wants you to do. She'll tell you or she'll show you. When you're making love, you think of other things - not what's going on at that particular moment with that particular lady. When you think about what you're actually doing, I guarantee you'll never satisfy the lady in your life. He went on to explain about holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing and taking things one step at a time. He described a lot of things I heard of but wasn't sure about. During that ride, one of the last things he said was: When you are absolutely sure she is satisfied, then you can do what you know is best for you - but not one minute before. That's what I was told. Thank you, Gran'pop. I love you. I miss you! Some afterthoughts: You could also buy a book, on-line, called "Kama Sutra." You could also go on-line and make the investment in some "adult sex toys" to stimulate and arouse. There are LOTS of sites. I don't know if this applies to your situation or not, but this might give you a few ideas: TRUE STORY - as told to me by my friend, J. B.: Joe: work, work, work, work AND work some more! He was ALWAYS tired. NO time to spend with his girlfriend, who later became his bride. One evening he came home from work. Flowers were on the table. Candles lit. His favorite music was playing. His favorite dinner ready just for him: pizza from his favorite pizza shop. Flowers and petals going up the stairs - a sort-of "path" leading to K.D., his beloved. He walked in the door and noticed ALL those nice things (except the pizza, which was in the fridge). "Honey, I'm home." K.D. 'sang', "I'm up hereeerrrrrrree." He "didn't stand an ice cube's chance in Hades" ! He walked-up the steps and she "ambushed" him. He didn't go right to sleep that night or for quite a few nights after that. Following their romantic interlude, within the next few days, they talked about those things which were bothering them about their relationship. Having a very frank discussion and "pulling no punches", they "opened the door" to, with and for each other. When an impasse was reached, they got a few trusted friends (I was one) and their minister involved. Eventually, their differences were straightened-out. Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: My wonderful family! : Because you asked. My friends, J. B. & K. D. "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"

what you do is get as close to him as possible. then start talking to him turn him on with dirty words. then start rubbing his chest and get in a lateral position get lower and lower till you reach his pants. look him in the eye and chew your lip then take the plunge and reach down give him a hand job then get on your knees and give him a blowie keep going and u can start having sex

kiss his ear or neck

Just say to him (Turn ON) lol works every time

Kiss and suck his nipples...this will get him going for round 2 or 3.

start playing with his ear, kissing his neck...and grabing his penis

Ok here's a little trick that works with every guy don't matter the situation but specially while laying in bed...Guys don't want females to know about this 'cause they would rather get some head but if you want to turn him on while laying in bed all you gotta do is rub his inner thighs and he's be ready to go in seconds. A guy can't control it (a hard-on) when he's partner does that. Simple but very true

Play with yourself..and when he tries to help (and he will) smack his hand and tell him nope...it will drive him nuts!

just start taking your clothes off ,and let him explore!

Take your fingers and run them up his shirt...slowly down his middle...around his button...down down down...around his areas BUT NOT "IT" - YET...then down to his inner thigh...to the other one...back to the first...then slowly make your way to his (sack)...them do a little come here motion with your 3 middle fingers then back to the thigh...(i bet hes breathing hard now...or making ooo sounds)...when he starts doing that...make back to the sack, and start playin with his..."thang"...by then, hes gonna wanna do ya.

I like to talk to him and tell him what I need and how I like it and where he can put it. It gets him turned on to the point he gives me his best.

all I have to say before going to bed "let's go play" or "let's go to bed" (meaning not just me but both of us) and he knows what's on my mind.

just grab him buy the weiner and say "do me"

dont roll into bed outa your dressing gown ans p.j's, make an effort so what your taking off is sexy, then when you get in you gotta do ZIP!

offer him a massage........undeniable it will lead to a boner and better things

I start by giving him a nice back and front massage with hot oil. Hot oil comes in flavors. After that I start kissing and licking his chest. I work my way up and down his chest and stomach area. That totally arouses him! After that I go directly downtown and work my magic. I don't waste time. Let's be honest men love oral without a doubt! After that he makes it all about me. Yummy! :D +6

My bf loves it when I kiss his neck and ears. I rub his chest and slowly move my hand further and further down his body until i start to hear him breathing harder. Just make sure whatever you do, take your time and go slowly...this will drive him crazy! ;)

exist? lol guys are easy

Read excerpts from Crackhead Jesus'more steamy scenes to excite him.

Show him pictures of you and your BFF getting it on.

Undo his zipper and play with him You will get an instant response.

Start talk about getting closer then start taking off your clothes

Uhhh, what kinda gtuuy do you have??? Hell, i'm turned on the moment I see my girl! All you have to do is give the "green light!!" If he doesn't go for green, then he lies in the 10% of guys who don't know when you're ready, or he's cheating. Hell, even when i'm tired, i'm not because what you I (or he) won't do, the next will. I keep that in the back of my head and make sure that she is MORE than satisfied. Plain and simple. All you have to do is show up.

just jump on him

Guys are easy, just touch him. Or do what lulu said lol that will work too:)

Take his hand and put it on your breast. Ask him if he likes it.