Well, since he already has make up the decision for u, u should move on. You don't really deserve, if he told u this, is because he's telling u that he's not prepare to be in a committed relationship and that he may cheat again. Think about it, if u take him back, neither you nor him is going to feel comfortable.

Ailec is right you don't deserve this. He cares enough not to hurt u, just accept it and move on. I was the same way with my girlfriend she said the same thing, but i moved on and i admit it took me a while to realize wat was going on. It will only happen again and i know you don't want to be hurt again. Be strong and it will be hard to let it go but it's only for the best.

Good for you for breaking up with a liar and a cheater. It means you value yourself, and you know you deserve to be respected, and have the confidence to say so! But shame on you for wanting to work it out! You aren't the one who did something wrong and you don't need any work! Besides, he's a liar and a cheater, what's to still be in love with? He's not at all what you thought he is - Think about it! When someone tells you who they are or what they are about - BELIEVE THEM!

You were correct in breaking up with him but he really didn't give you much choice. He think he is not interested and that's maybe why he didn't care to cheat. Just realize you can only control your own actions.

If you don't want to move on, expect to suffer. He cheated on you due to the failure of the relationship. In every relationship there is always the possibility of failure. In some cases, that failure manifests itself in a break-up. In others, that failure takes the form of cheating. You have to recognize that they are the same thing. When he cheated on you, it was him letting you know that the relationship wasn't working for him, and that he wanted out. The failure was his fault and yours. Something about the relationship made him seek someone else because there was something missing with you. He is probably too weak to break up with you without making a big production of it and moving away. For him, the physical distance will help him keep his emotional distance. He is doing the right thing. Contrary to popular belief, how YOU feel is NOT important. If he doesn't want the relationship with you, you ain't gonna have one with him. Either way, when you are done suffering, pick yourself up and move on.

If he wants to move on, he really isn't that interested in you. I am sorry. In time it will get easier.

Perhaps it is time to call it day.

Let's see here...He cheated on you and he wants to move on? What should you do? Get your head out of your ass and let him go.

dont punish youself punish him. next time you see him say your goodbyes and knee him in the nuts

if i was you i would move on thats all i can say

well, it's easier said than done. if he cheated on you, and wants to move on. obviously the guy doesn't want to be with you. take it as a sign, that you got the better end. he will only keep hurting you in the long run if you stay with him. you deserve better anyway. you know the old saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" it speaks the truth. and take it from someone who can relate to this, and be strong it will be tough at first..but you will find someone who truly respects and wants to be with you. for the mean time, listen to some songs. music cures. kelly clarkson - since you've been gone kelly clarkson- never again rhiana- take a bow beyonce- if i were a boy carrie underwood- before he cheats taylor swift- another picture to burn hinder- without you those sure have helped me in the past! stay strong!

Face Facts....you were not good enough to hold him the first time, he is not interested in you anymore...move on, he has! Also you may want to look long and hard at why he felt the need to wander..maybe stop the whining....the clingy nature..put out a little more in the bed department...or history will repeat itself....have a wonderful day.

i would not agree that you were not good enough for him.......people cheat for a reason......a lot of the time it is because of their own insecurity....i am glad that you broke up with him......you do not want to be with a cheater.....take care....Brian.....

if he wants to move on then obviously he doesn't wanna be with you and hes telling you that he doesn't wanna hurt you again so that he doesn't look like the bad guy. If he didn't want to hurt you because he loved you he would try to make it right . Not walk away from it.

Move on

start using your head to think with (thats what its for) and not your heart. your heart doesnt want you to move on but your head is telling you that you should. no one enjoys being hurt and having to move on, but if he cheated on you and is telling you that he wants to move on then so should you. time heals all wounds.

A leopard never changes its spots. He will do it again. Avoid the heartache. You WILL meet somebody better who respects you and wont hurt you in the first place xxxxx

if he has cheated on you once he will either think you will come back even if he does it again or he made a stupid mistake, to me i don't trust anyone so personaly if a girl cheats on me she is no longer a decent humane person, if you cant trust them don't worry. you are not alone

Open your eyes! it's time to move on. I know it's not easy but that's the best thing to do for now. He gave up on you when he said he wants to move on. Give love for yourself, enjoy life without him and if you are ready find another. So many fishes in the ocean dude! catch the best one.

If he said he wants to move on so he will never hurt you again, it means he wants to move on, but he wants to sound cool so you will feel bad about his F up and you will be there when he can't find anyone else. Sorry, but if he cheated on you then he doesn't like you that much.

I think he wants to move on for other reasons too. I'm not sure how much he cares about your hurt, or he wouldn't have done it the first time. +5

Let him go. When a guy says things like "I don't want to hut you", he is admitting that he isn't good boyfriend material and that he doesn't want to be together, for whatever reason. Even if you love him, you need to accept that sometimes we can't be with those we love, especially if they have a problem that will cause them to hurt us repeatedly. I know you miss him now, but if you remove him from your life, you'll avoid a lot of drama and pain.

Alright, if you truely love him then you have to talk it out with him and see if he loves you too even though it may be ironic knowing that he cheated. But i can speak from experience, my boyfriend cheated on me and I am still with him. Look, sometimes things happen for a reason and sometimes there are things that you just can not explain. He should tell you why he did cheat on you and hopefully you can both work it out. But he wants to move so he doesnt hurt you again then I'm not sure he wants to be with you anymore. I mean if he loves you and wants your trust and forgiveness he should not be moving. Therefore, I suggest that you talk to him and let him know that YOU want to work it out and earn his trust but if he still insists on moving then honey I sugguest that you just move on. I know when people say "move on" it seems easy but it isnt but time heals everything and you will start to realize what I mean by time heals everything. The most important things in a relationship are TRUST, COMMUNICATION AND FORGIVENESS even though it will take time for you both to get to these characteristics if you both decide to work on it. Hope this works out.

STAY FAR AWAY FROM HIM. after you try so hard to get back with him... he'll break you again. it's not worth it.

Run to the airport and catch him at the last possible second. Cue story book ending.

You broke up with your boyfriend for cheating on you ,he excepted it and is moving on ,maybe you should to ,it is over.+4

if you love something set it frwee if it comes back its ment to be.yes this will hurt but its better in the long run for you as well as him

Well this may not be what you want to hear, but he's already cheated on you once. I don't believe that crap of once a cheater always a cheater, but the fact is he cheated when he was in a commited relationship with you. Now I will assume for the sake of arguement he wanted to be in that relationship with you and yet he cheated. Now if he's telling you he doesn't want to be with you, NO MATTER WHAT THE REASON is I think it makes it far more likely he will cheat. . Since he cheated in a realtionship he wanted to be in, I think he would definitely cheat in a relationship that he (by his own words) doesn't want to be in. Either way good luck.

he has cheated and is willing to move on seems like he is not interested you might have to accept that try winning him if its possible although if u value urself its undesirable

come'on he cheated on you and once a cheat always a cheat and he's respectin ur feelings now(to bad he didnt do that in the first place) and not hurtin u and not puttin u threw all the stress and worry. u shud respect urself too in that sense. move on and wait for that one lad that truly loves uu

You have to move on. I've been cheated on, so I know how it feels. As long as you have amazing people in your life, get together with them more. Spend time doing things you love, you'll forget all about him soon.

It sounds he knows he can't be true to you. He may feel not enough for you, or he may not be ready to settle down and scared to tell you. If a man loves a woman, he will not move on, he would fight for your love. Please move on with your life and find the man you deserve. If he one day comes back, tell him its too late and to move on. Sometimes karma is a bitch, but you will feel much better for moving on.

...if someone doesn't want you...well thats's fine.. ...just find someone else.. it's simples...:OP

it took me 6 weeks after my wife of 6.5 years ran away with cyberBF#3 for me to get over her. life moves no and we must too.