Why do some people yell and scream when they are angry, instead of expressing it more calmly?
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For some people, like myself, it is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. Again, like myself, ther are medications for this, which ususlly work.
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Usually it is because that is what they were taught. We learn how to deal w/ emotion by the people in our envioronment. Something for parents to think about.
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Because they are jerks. Because they get away with it. Because they have no self-control.
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There are different ways people react to anger. Soem tend to be very silent while they're angry, while others haev to let it out. IT's just how that is. Although at times it does go too far.
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I wouldnt yell or screm AT someone - nor in public,... I think people do that because they know no other way to react or respond to their emotions or feelings. When I am upset or angry I do explode in private a bit. A few nights ago while driving home I was very upset/angry about something, I couldnt keep it together so I pulled over, and just let it all out. I yelled, I screamed and I cried uncontrollably for 5 mins or so. After that I felt a lot better, like I had cleared my head or something. I know that may sound strange but It felt good to just let it all out.
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you know i have no clue... most people dont know how to handle they're emotions
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i do that sometimes, when im at the end of my tether, i am learning to not let things get that far now. i dont know why i do it. sometimes things just get too much.:)
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As A Therapist the reason i give to why people yell is actually quite simple they yell because they feel they are not being heard
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Unless we're totally drugged out (or like my English teacher), our mind tells us to take it out on something. Or there's some sort of change going on in your life that provokes you to flip out.
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They panic
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I deal with so much stupidity every day that sometimes you just reach a breaking point. I will try to talk calmly to people but most of the time they just sit and nod and continue to do whatever they are doing that is pissing me off. Sometimes you have to put a little fear into someone to get your point across. I don't do it for no reason at all. I have put up with a bunch of crap before im in someones face about it.
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The difference lies in how they handle frustration. Both can be pissed, but the one who handles frustration "better" will be calm about it. While the one with a low tolerance for frustration will blow a fuse.
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