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Well it seems like to me you want to date them and you are trying to the person with this gf/bf to notice you. The problem with all of this is you DONT really want to be there friend. You want to date there bf/gf. The issue is that if this actually develops into a friendship, two things can happen: they can breakup with bf/gf and you have to listen to it or they can just tell you all the problems they are having with said gf/bf and ur stuck listening and trying to be a good friend, when all you do is secretly want them to breakup so you can try to get this persons bf/gf. Overall this seems pretty unhealty. If you geniunely want to be this persons friend fine, but if u have a motive in the long run you might get hurt/aggravated.
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Hey man, what you said in the comment is ideal. IM. IM is the perfect get to know people routine. Its like having a regular conversation, except if it turns bad or akward your not looking at each other. Talk to her on im, towards the end of the conversation, ask if she would want to hang out with you. If she says yes, say "ok thanks, i'll give you a call, whats your number"? From there is when you really get to know her.
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Be friends first. establish trust, especially with their significant other. Then once they feel they can trust you, then you could give out email addresses and stuff.
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