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by buddy05 on January 17th, 2006

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My ex and I are best friends and we've always thought someday we’d get married. I've never been serious with anybody else but my ex is now telling me that she's fallen for this guy but still loves me. What do I do?

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  • by katie7576 on December 5th, 2008

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    tell her she can't have her cake and eat it too...assuming of course you want to be with her..she has to make a choice, what she is doing is not fair to everyone involved

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  • by Professor StacieJ on September 8th, 2008

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    You need some space. Take some time to think about what you want. I'm guessing you are going to want to find someone who wants to be with you. It's sad, but I'm sure deep down you know, it's time to move on.

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  • by Ms.A on September 5th, 2008

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    Forget about her and find someone to date that you don't have to stress about.

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  • by alfugazi on September 5th, 2008

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    She's keeping you on the back burner just in case things dont work out with the other guy.

    Maybe she's looking to get a reaction out of you to test you to see if you are jealous. I'd be careful allowing this to happen because she's playing both sides against the middle.

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  • by betony24.rei-chan on September 4th, 2008

    betony24.rei-chan

    here's all i have to say. move on. she can't like both of you guys at once.

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  • by Jane on September 4th, 2008

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    be sad and then move on.

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  • by Blowercup8ip on January 18th, 2006

    Blowercup8ip

    She's ur ex so therefore, that means there is no official relationship b/w u guys. And if she's ur ex then don't worry about it, let her have her way, if she still loves you then she'll break up with the other guy and be with you again.

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  • by shrinkess on December 5th, 2008

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    Don't go for her again until she knows what she wants. Clearly, she's not sure yet.

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  • by A on December 5th, 2008

    A

    It sounds to me like she's keeping you around just in case her and her current beau don't work out. I know that I may appear to be the bearer of bad news, but it really doesn't sound like you should continue conversing with her if she is going to act like that.

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  • by Kathy on December 26th, 2008

    Kathy

    if she is your ex....let it be....I tell my children all the time....dont go digging through your trash...there is a reason she is your x...

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  • by emptydepth on September 6th, 2009

    emptydepth

    think about it bro, she claims to love you but got with someone else... ive been in the same situation and im here to tell ya man, she claims she still loves you because shes afraid of letting go ( its the same thing with throwing away that old thing ya found in ur room that ur somehow attached to) but one of you has to because it cant work like this... look man, i know its hard but u gotta let her go do her own thing while u do urs... i know it sucks but trust me, ull feel much better a little while after and then ull find an extremely nice girl. it almost always works out in the end...

    but keep in mind that all these people have a point

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  • by Mr_Natural Abstractor of the Quintessence on September 6th, 2009

    Mr_Natural Abstractor of the Quintessence

    Let her go. There's a reason she's your "ex".

    #FEFDF4

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  • by MargaretMcGhee on September 4th, 2008

    MargaretMcGhee

    why not let her have both you and the other guy? Don't pass up what is the best part of your life.

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