what is s/o?

sorry I never get jealous over anything or anyone ...I think its a total waste of time

The only time that happened to me was a couple of days after Valentines day in 2005. I had just gotten engaged to the most wonderful and beautiful woman in the world. Her dad hated me mostly because he didn't like my religion but also partly because I was almost 15 years older and he thought I had ulterior motives in being with her. Anyway he claims to have run int on old b/f of hers (who daddy loved and adored btw) he gave him her address which I was a bit pissed about. Anyway This dude shows up about 30 which was lik 13 years younger than me and about 2 years older than her. He had a very expensive suit on expensive jewelery. Driving a very expensive looking convertable sports car. I didn't like him at all. Turns out the guy was a successful junior partner in a big law firm up in Conneticutt and was making quite the living for himself. He started bragging about the big house he was having built and what it was costing etc. I really hated this guy cause here I was just barely making 30 k and couldn't give her anything near what he obviously could. My jealousy of him would be short lived though. He told her he still loved her and cared for her very deeply and would like to have her back so he could have someone to share all his good fortune with. Her reply was that as flattering as the offer was he is her ex for a reason and nothing he could give her could compare to how loved wanted and cared for she has felt with me. She told him those are things money could never buy and to her they were worth far more than anything he could possibly give her. I felt like a million bucks after she told him that :)

The only time that happened to me was a couple of days after Valentines day in 2005. I had just gotten engaged to the most wonderful and beautiful woman in the world. Her dad hated me mostly because he didn't like my religion but also partly because I was almost 15 years older and he thought I had ulterior motives in being with her. Anyway he claims to have run int on old b/f of hers (who daddy loved and adored btw) he gave him her address which I was a bit pissed about. Anyway This dude shows up about 30 which was lik 13 years younger than me and about 2 years older than her. He had a very expensive suit on expensive jewelery. Driving a very expensive looking convertable sports car. I didn't like him at all. Turns out the guy was a successful junior partner in a big law firm up in Conneticutt and was making quite the living for himself. He started bragging about the big house he was having built and what it was costing etc. I really hated this guy cause here I was just barely making 30 k and couldn't give her anything near what he obviously could. My jealousy of him would be short lived though. He told her he still loved her and cared for her very deeply and would like to have her back so he could have someone to share all his good fortune with. Her reply was that as flattering as the offer was he is her ex for a reason and nothing he could give her could compare to how loved wanted and cared for she has felt with me. She told him those are things money could never buy and to her they were worth far more than anything he could possibly give her. I felt like a million bucks after she told him that :)

Nope. My boyfriend doesn't have an ex. I'm his first girlfriend. There's no ex to be jealous of.

Yes, he has had a few gf's in the past and is still friends with most, I'm more jealous of his first gf; he talks about her very fondly and I have nothing to compare to; while he does; I do like it when he tells embarrassing stories about them though; I'm jealous, but I like hearing about it... how messed up is that?

Yes i am ashamed to say i do but i am working on it

im not gonna lie i get real jeaous sometimes but i try to not let it get to me

No, my s/o's ex treated my s/o like crap....I don't think too much of her at all. Nothing to get jealous over.

em i did when we 1st met but thats coz it was never hidden how much he still loved her and given the chance hed drop me and go running back over 3 years on he has moved on luckily

No, why would I, I have him.

sometimes, maybe in the first few months, I am not a jealous type but I think it is the way my man handles things that makes me......and I told that to him blatantly....... but well...well... 20 years of marraige with ex is a lot of years shared with her and that is the fact now I am letting it go I do not want wasting my time anymore.........I love him and he loves me no matter what I do she will always be a part of him because she is mother of his only son........ so I think learning and being aware that she will always be in the picture is a lot better than getting jealous///////