There's no such thing as luck..just don't "dwell" on those apparent "facts" or you'll attract another one! Think, instead, of the sort of girl you WOULD like. Then work on that. You'll see the difference! :)

Best of luck with your new wife. I have been married only once and my wife is what is known as a 'good woman' but I certainly would never trust my own judgement again in getting married.....perhaps you are like me in that some men really are NOT good at being husbands...

Well, you obviously are attracted to petite blondes & their is nothing wrong with having "a type". Petite & blonde does not = bi-polar. I think the part you have to worry about is the "firecracker" part. That is not luck, that is something you are obviously attracted to. How about getting to know them better and for longer *before* you get married? How about trying to find attraction in a petite, blonde who isn't necessarily a "firecracker"? She can still be fun & spontaneous, but, you know, "chemically balanced". How about trying to get treatment for one or both of your wives instead of discarding them? Bi-polar disorder is highly treatable these days and they have new meds out all the time. Look at some of the common indicators... what is her sleep pattern like (bi-polar disorder is commonly tied to circadian rythm disorders). Does she go to bed, sleep 6 to 9 hours and get up at a decent time in the morning every night? what is her work history like? Is she a job-hopper? what are her mood swings like? Mild and predictible or wild and irradic? (We all have mood swings, but bi-polar folks have intense mood swings far more frequently). Better "luck" next time ( I wouldn't bother letting someone else "pick" for you...that's half the fun!)

I've know several men who cannot seem to pick a different woman. And one of them, the women keep getting a tiny bit worse each time. At least the last one he's not married to her....yet. But her ex husband DID try to kill him:-( I'd have a talk with my friends who know me and try to figure out what part of these ladies you really want and what you could do without. And try maybe changing that part of yourself that seems to need that kind of woman. Sounds dangerous to me.