I am in a happy relationship but had a drunken makeout session with someone else while on a New Year's trip. I want to just forget about it because it meant nothing to me and telling him could ruin the relationship. What should I do?
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Well if it's gonna ruin it, then don't tell him, u dodn't have to, since u didn't have sex and no way of contacting STD's then u can keep that a secret and next time, control ur drinking, I would suggets don't drink at all.
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Did your makeout session include sex? you failed to include that in your question. if you don't tell it, somebody else will. put yourself in your significant others place. how would you feel if this roll was reversed? you can't blame it on the alcohol. you wanted to or it would not have happened. you may want to forget about it, but i guarantee that sometime in the future, the word will make its way home. tell it, tell it, tell it and suffer the results.
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Okay, I'm probably contradicting everything anyone's ever told me abotu truthfulness, but don't tell him. If oyu can lvie with it, it meant nothing, and you didn't have sex, then there's no need!
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DON'T TELL HIM
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DOn't tell him and just try to forget about it. If he finds out then just blow it off as a thing you did only because you were drunk.
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In a true relationship there is no lies. Plus do not lie to your guy and tell him tha you love him as it isshowing that you do not.
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It would be a big mistake to tell him, just let it go. Learn from your mistake, don't do it again. If you tell him it could ruin your relationship.
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I know I'm going to get a downrate on this one but I rather to be honest, I thought having a good relationship is about being open and honest with eachothers, and what if he not been told and found out months or years later, he would be just as devastated and hurt.
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If you are posting this question in a public forum, then it must still be bothering you. I am glad to hear that it did not mean anything to you. I think that a good relationship should not be based on deception. I think you need to open up and tell him. If you really mean enough to him, then your relationship will survive. It takes a lot of courage to own up to cheating. I would tell him before he finds out for himself, which someday he will. You do not want him hearing about this, "through the streets." Explain what happened and that alcohol was involved and, most importantly, that there was no sex. You need to just throw yourself on his mercy in order to make things right. Good luck. If you wish, please post a comment on how things turned out.
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