If you're seeing 4 or 5 people casually and you're pretty much interested in them all equally...how do you choose?
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Psycho the kid
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If your seeing 4 or 5 people casually I think you need to check yourself for STD's on a regular basis.
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You don't. You just string em all along as long as you can.
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Doesn't sound like you are ready to make any choice right now , though you need to be careful
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Sounds like you enjoy a little too much to make a choice.
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You don't. If you like all equally, you obviously haven't met the one who you like MORE. When you meet that person, then you can let the others go.
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I doubt I would ever be in that situation seeing how I don't have alot of luck with getting one female much longer 5 or 6 lol but if I were in a situation like that I guess I would make a list of all the things I like and dislike about each one of them. Then I would review those lists carefully and the one who came closest to matching they qualities I like in a partner would be the one I would concentrate on building a relationship with
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Here is how... Write their names on seperate pieces of paper and put them in a hat. Now draw one out. the person you would be best 'choosing' is the one whose name you just thought of in hoping it would be that one..... You must be a good person to have so many desirable people in your life, I congratulate you and wish you well : )
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Personally I'd see the fact I was casually seeing them all as a sign I wasn't ready for a proper relationship, and the indecisiveness over not being able to choose would affirm this for me. The chances are I wouldn't choose any, would break up with them all and explain the reasons why, and then spend a lot of time examining my own feelings and thoughts. Maybe then I would feel ready to start dating again, one person at a time.
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It depends on what you want. If you want a serious relationship, it's time to move on. If you just want to have a good time, continue dating all of them until the relationships fizzle out.
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keep seein them all until you find one that stands out, just hope they arent the jealous type and find out about one another. after all it is casual!
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Well, either you decide you like one more than another, or you realize that while they're all equal, none of them is more equal than the others, and thus, they're ALL probably not quite suited to you... and wait for another who is better yet.
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Whats the rush? Continue to see them until you decide you fancy one over the other or you find someone else you like better.
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Choose the one you have most fun with.
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I'd just wait... see which relationship makes you feel the most comfortable and in which your communication is the best...
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