Ok, i am 15 and i lost had sex a few nights ago. I am a good girl, and i have a gpa of 4.0 and i am no slut. But I am scared that i might be pregnant or have an STD...I dont know what to do cause i have no money and i cant tell my mom.
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Try to find a free clinic such as Planned Parenthood where you can go anonymously to get some tests and some advice.
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If you and your mom have a good relationship then your mom will understand and will help you like they always do. If you have a good relationship with anyone else tell them, but your mom is gonna find out whether u tell her or not. If u have no friends, try a counselor at your school. If your dad is in the picture try him too. You might have a lot of people that have your back and you might not even know it.
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First off, calm down. Now, did you two use protection? If yes, then you should relax. While not effective 100% of the time, you have good chances of not being preggers or having an STD. But either way, find someone you trust who can buy you a pregnancy test. Do you know if he has any STDs? Ask. Now, here's the bad news: if you go to get yourself tested for an STD, depending where you are, the doctor may by law have to tell your mon. It would be a good idea to just tell your parents (or just your dad), so he can take you in. If that's not the case, you will need to tell your mom. Good luck.
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I don't mean to sound harsh, but if you feel old enough to play grown-up games, then you need to be mature enough to stand by your actions. No mother wants to know her daughter has lost her virginity but every mother knows it's going to happen. She was once you, right? Regardless of her initial reaction, your mother cares about your physical and emotional well-being more than anything. You might be surprised at how receptive she can be. If you simply can't talk to her, there should be a free clinic or county health department in your area. They can test and educate for free. And it goes without saying, but you need to respect yourself enough to ALWAYS use protection. Both an STD and pregnancy will change your life. IS a few minutes of pleasure worth your future? Good luck. (And stop posting the same question multiple times.)
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You should talk to someone and get help. Get checked out at a clinic or health department. Don't keep it all inside and if you continue to have sex, use protection.
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You are engaging in what might better be described as “adult behavior”. You need to be aware, and not ignore the reality that this will present to you consequences that can be very hard to deal with and may affect the rest of your life. I might add that you need to improve your relationship with your mother and your father. You should feel that you can speak to them about anything.
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First of all I hope you learned your lesson and will really think things through before engagin in "adult" behavior. Secondly, if you seriously think you are pregnant or have an STD go to a free clinic and get checked out(I know many others on here have already said that so I am just reinforcing what they have already told you). Thirdly, it appears based on one of your comments that you have an issue with your Mom. I hope you are able to overcome that and sit down with her and talk. If you can't tell her you had sex then just talk to her about sex in general. My daughter is 11 and I have a 15 year old son also. Whenever they have questions I answer them as openly and honestly as possible. It may feel weird or uncomfortable, but you will feel better knowing you can talk to your Mom about it. And if you find that you can't talk to her about it then I hope you will find a responsible adult that you do trust and can talk to. (Counselor, neighbor, adult friend, church leader, etc.)
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If you can find a planned parenthood in your area go there. if ou are having sex its time to educate yourself...and planned parenthood is a great place to do so.
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Go to a local Planned Parenthood and speak with someone there. Having sex doens't make you a slut. And, if you speak with your mother and explain the situation, she may be more understanding than you think.
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Ok...First of all, with a GPA of 4.0 you should have had the mentality to use protection! 4.0??? Come on... I am sure you read it all the time and I know u should be educated enough to know that STD's and pregnancy are highly likely if you have unprotected sex... For it being your first time, you should have taken precautions! Now your mind is uneasy! Those are things that are taught very early in school! What happened? Now you need to go to a clinic and take a test to hope and pray that you neither have an STD or are pregnant! If you had put ur 4.0 brain to use while you were thinkin of losing your virginity u would not be in the predicament you are in! See if in your area there are clinics that offere free pregnancy testing. They should be able to tell you if u either have contracted an STD or if ur pregnant. GOOD LUCK!
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babe your should go to the doctors to get a test done xx i hope all is good
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