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LynneDD
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Run away with one and see f the other chases you, if he doesn't, you made the right choice
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I sounds like your not ready for a serious relationship so you don't choose , and if you were ready you would not have asked this question - Which is very OKay
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i always choose which one i like best... and its impossible (usually) to say that they are equal u mainly just like the attention from both ANd u dont want to lose that but there is onme that u like more.
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Heads or tails. OR, you can go by how much they 'care' about you(by care, I dont mean how much money they spend on you, I mean how much your happiness is important to them) and by how they treat their inferiors. Just because they have authority over a person, doesnt mean they can boss them around(For example, waiters. If they mess up an order, theres no need to shout at them, just inform them of the mistake and politely, ask them to correct it).
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This is a very difficult situation. Ultimately, you need to decide on which man is better for you, now, and in the long-run. Some risks are worth taking and pay off - others end is catastrophy and heartache. Knowing how it will turn out is impossible. You just need to follow your heart and your gut. My only advice is to think very carefully about the decision you're going to make. Don't rush into it and don't decide for reasons that aren't valid or rock solid. Either way, you are probably going to hurt someone. You need to make sure that you are 100% sure about your decision and that you don't beat around the bush. Once you choose one man, stick with him. Don't lead the other guy or make him think he has a chance. Good luck.
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Go with your gut. Figure out the logic of it, decide on the more logical choice, and if you don't like that choice, it's wrong...it's like when you ask someone to pick which dress you should wear. When they pick one, you either agree because that's what you wanted them to say, or you feel disappointed at their choice and pick the other one. It's like you already knew what you wanted, you just needed to have a caalyst to figure out what you wanted. Does that makes sense...? I think I am being confusing, sorry!
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With your heart.
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By weighing out their negatives - not positives, never those - and seeing which is the lesser of two evils. If you weigh the good into it, you'll never be able to pick.
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Which one makes you feel the happiest? And treats you the best?
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You have a sword fight.
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You pick me
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people say it's better to be with someone who loves u more than u love him... i guess pick whoever that loves u more, but if u happen to love the other one more... then go with what your heart tells you..
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If both love you, then I think you must choose who causes butterflies in your stomach each time you see him, the one who makes you continuously adore his charm or beautiful face everyday.It may sound shallow but having a man you would fall in love with over and over again would make losing the other worth it. The feelings for the other man would never completely fade into thin air, but having the man you adore (with a requirement that he loves you) could bring you to almost contentment.
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In feel you need to write a list of all the important factors that are important to you and ask each man questions-you will be surprised what you will find out. Be direct. Has he been faithful, does he want kids, would he look after you if you were ill, does he believe men can be faithful etcetera. Be matey so he feels relaxed to be honest-you will be surprised what you find out. Perhaps his responses may not be a hundred que per què cent honest but you will get indicators. More importantly watch his actions. My gut is saying to me that neither is the right one or you would know. Visualise the absolute ideal man for you, his qualities, make sure yours match and your geni will bring him-watch 'the secret' and you will understand what im saying.
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Not hard. I have very strong feelings about things! But if I had to say...I would say that I would choose based on compatibility and the faithfulness and loyalty of the person's character.
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So i could tell you what anyone and everyone will tell you and probably what you already know such as choose someone who respects you and loves you and is honest and etc....but I'm goin to say besides those very imprtant things, choose the one who when your with that person makes you feel incredable, the one that when you kiss or hug or touch you have the feeling of love that certain amazing feeling someone who you could never get tired of....start with that! good luck!
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Walk away from both! Now! ;-)
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Having been the odd man out just over 24 hours now, I recommend that you remember each man when he was at his lowest. How did he treat you? How did he treat the others around him? It's easy to see the best in someone when they're happy, but if you want something longterm, you need to know how he'll treat you when things are going badly.
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Well truth is it's hard, because am in the same situation nd have no idea what to really do. One is always around but can't provide for my every need and want, but he is sweet. The other is a business man and can provide every need and all my wants, but because of having more than one business, he is scarely around...so I feel a little distant, but I have all I want. So I have to think of my present happiness vs. my future happiness and finance. And in any case one should think of these things when making the choice.
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Get all to agree to polyandry then you do not have to choose.
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I want this problem! Make a list for each man, one column listing the "good/positive" traits, and one column listing "why you should run the other way." Let us know who wins!
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I want this problem! Make a list for each man. The list should consist of 2 columns. One column titled "good/Positive" traits. The other column titled "why I should run away." This will take some time and long consideration on your part.
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