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The truth has been told and the baby is not guilty about the previous realtionships of parents.
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This is a complex question, where emotions are on razor's edge. You love your brother and feel he has been cheated on, yet he is accepting someone else's child, as his own, just to stay with his girl(is this his girlfriend or daughter?). In honesty, you may never accept this arrangement. you will always love your brother and feel sorry for his situation. Sometimes, and i say only sometimes, time has a way of resolving problems. this may occur here. Remember this........this baby did not asked to be born. it is innocent. do not make it the villain and hated by all.
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The wee baby is innocent. I think if your brother can understand and accept the circumstances with his girl and have a life with her, you should try and be civil to your brother's girl. It takes more emotion to harbour hate and malice than to be civil and kind.
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Does your brother love the baby and it's mom? Then ease up. Besides, how can you not love a baby, no matter who it's parents are? By not accepting the people in your brother's life, you are hurting him, not her. And you are cheating yourself and your brother of the support and love of siblings.
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There is not wrong or right here. No one truly knows your situation besides you. Personally, I would acknowledge the child, because they are innocent. The girl on the other hand, I would not be so civil towards. My brother is my best friend,and if that happened to him, I would make it my personal quest to rid of her. This is not the most P.C. answer, but it's honest.
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Your brother is a class act. Support him.
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