How do you deal with a co worker you really dont like? She "tattles" on me for stuff and then I will see her doing the exact same things and I am not the type to "tattle" but it really irritates me that she does that........How do I deal?
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Jes Baby
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IF you really have reached the end of your rope, convert her into a 'Ghost' Regard her as a dead person who occasionally comes into your head to haunt you, and that is the limit of the effect she can have on you without your compliance in whatever little game she is involved in. Also - realise that sometimes life is miserable and that there are things and situations that do not have 'happy endings' this will relieve you of the pressure and false hope that a 'solution' exists. Then you can be as bloody minded or as passive with them as YOU chose, because there is no real way of doing it 'correctly' Hope this helps, it's a bead situation to be in, I know.
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Well you call her in your office and tell her very nicely with a smile on your face to "quit peeing in your Kool aid"....that you have your Kool Aid under control and that she needs to keep her Kool Aid stand on her side of the street. :)
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Confront her on it. When you see her doing something wrong say something to her.
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