I like a man who can form a sentence, spell and all that. But they also must have a sense of humor and common sense.

i think that's hot as hell. as long as you're sweet and kinda cute too! :D

im not a girl but i will give you some advice lil buddy...study hard and work toward your goals but also remember that you only live once and when youre old and alone that degree isnt gonna love you back...find some one and dont spend all your time studying or find a girl who works as hard as you do and try to make it work .... and for the love of god stay off any online games like WoW or whatever other ones there are out there...

All I've ever been attracted is "studious guys" as you say it, but at the same time they were highly intelligent so they didn't have to spend all their time studying.

Smart is sexy... but studiousness does not a man make. It's more important that you be kind, thoughtful and interesting. Can you keep up your end of a conversation, or just reproduce others' thoughts on paper?

It depends on whether or not he is an outgoing person. If he shuts himself up in his room, and never sees people, and barely says hi to people he knows in order to get those grades, perhaps he is a bit over the top. - But mostly, a guy who gets good grades and manages to have good friends(who aren't creepily exactly like him) and still has time for being nice to people and having his own kind of fun, is a very admirable guy who can make a girl change for the better.

does he have time for the girl? The woman is going to think she isn't important

You are basing your desirability on what you *do*. But you don't have to base your worth on achievements or attributes. Even without achievements, special merit or attractiveness, you are important and loved. There is Someone, LucidEngigma, who loves and desires you *as you are*, despite all you've done or haven't done, all your failures, faults and sins, who desires your *heart* not your work, who embraces you even when you are at your worst, does not look at the outward appearance, and who gave his very life just to be with you. Who came and conquered death and sin, which separated you from him, so that you could have the whole and lasting life you were created for in a relationship with him, enjoying his love and experiencing eternal life in his perfect, everlasting Kingdom. His name is Jesus Christ. Your life has been bought and paid for with the blood of Jesus Christ and that means you are free from the pressure to *be* something, *own* something, or *prove* something in order to be important or loved. Jesus loved you so much that he was willing to be crucified on on a cross so that you could have eternal life with him one day--and a fulfilled life now. You have worth. Your worth is not based on performance, achievement, or even how many people love and respect you. Your worth is based solely on the declaration of God: "For God so loved the world."

I like studious guys. I don't find that intimidating at all.

I like a smart guy. I think they have goals in life and that is very attractive. But this guy has to have an amazing sense of humor who doesn't take himself too seriously.

I like a studious guy. I also like a guy that pays attention to me and that can loosen upa nd have fun amongst people. I would never want a guy to compromise his grades for me-so I like the 4.0 college guy. As others have stated it does show that he cares about his goals own morals and life path. I respect that highly. I would only hope that he saw that in me as well.

You're a knucklehead if you have to ask. Are you sure you have a 4.0?

I wouldn't really care. All that matters is what he's like and if they care about you and some crap like that.

firstly, what is a 4.0 college student? Does that mean the top grade? Personally, at college and uni I was attracted to the smart guys - but it depends on what subjects they are studying

No, i always got the first position in class but studied less!