My boyfriend wants to have anal sex that shit hurts like hell. I have tryed it once but it hurted to much so i made him take it out. What can i do so that it's pleasure pain instead of pain pain?
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Well there really not a non-painful way to having anal sex.One of the best ways Ive learned is to use a lot of lubricated(vaseline,ky jelly,ect.) lay on your side, because on your side your muscles most relaxed.Grab hold of his dick,so therefore your in control with how far he enters you.Enter him in you very slowly,taking your time is the key.Do not tense up, i repeat do not tense up! tensing up only makes it more painful,relaxe your muscles.Yes, it will feel like youve gotta shit and thas perfectly normal,give it a couple a pumps and your anal will start to become relaxed some pressure will start to come off.It may take a while to get use to but if you are determined to have anal sexyoull go through the pain to get to the pleasure!!!!Just think some women have anal sex with horses!!!!!!!!!!!! Just remember anal sex is not for everybody if at all it still feels very painfull,STOP! DO NOT CONTINUE!The injuries that can occur with that are not at all enjoyong and could lead to other serious issues
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I agree, I was the same way. Use a lubricant and control how far he goes into you because if you let him control it, he is just going to want to go all the way in and get crazy with it. Just ease it in. I would not recomend doing it all the time, make it a once in a while treat.
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They make numbing lubricants......try those.
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Lots and Lots of lubrication
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Use a LOT of lube. Practice with sex toys before (butt plugs are great, you can wear them for hours).
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Start from the pussy first, and make sure you are really wet. Also the penis must be really warm up and really hard. Pre cum from the hard penis make it easier to enter the ass hole. Start slowly and when it gets wetter then only push more of the penis inside the anus.
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Lots of lube, lots of patience, lots of foreplay...go slowly, gently and use other forms of stimulation to ease the way. Rope sometimes helps, if he's careful not to go all-out at once but pays attention to what your body is saying.
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Having anal sex is very harmful for digestive system..and also there r lots of disease when u have anal sex and then vaginal sex..after several times of anal sex u will have lots of toilet problems.. So forget it..Use the normal way not the shit way :)
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"Having anal sex is very harmful for digestive system..and also there r lots of disease when u have anal sex and then vaginal sex..after several times of anal sex u will have lots of toilet problems.. So forget it..Use the normal way not the shit way" I really dont believe that. Your boyfriend just needs to realize that he cant just go to town on you. It can be really great if you take it slow. We find condoms and lube make it easier
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If your boyfriend hurt you it's because he had no clue what he was doing. If I were you I wouldn't have anal sex with until he let you play with HIS ass with a dildo. He should know what it feels like before trying it on others. Meanwhile, I suggest you play with your own ass with toys of various sizes. Go slow, and use lube! Surgilube is the best, all others may be irritating. Make sure you clean all the toys well when you're done.
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Relax, well lubricate it, finger it first and then try it again, no pain no gain.
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Try try again, one day pain will be gone and you will be pleased you did it.
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go slow, maybe have a few drink, use desensitizing anal lubes: http://www.xtoysusa.com/415lubes.htm
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I suggest that you start off with a lot of foreplay, you need to be fully aroused and ready to cum. Have him give your oral sex and have him lick your ass and finger it for a few minutes first. The key is slow, lots of lube, relax, bare down just a tiny bit that helps to ease it in. Have him get the head in and just be still for a minute while you focus on relaxing your sphincter muscles. Take deep breaths and then have him slid it in a little more. Back and forth slowly. Have him stimulate your clit with his fingers or you use a vibrator. If you can do this and stay relaxed your climax with blow your mind.
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First and foremost- get him to allow you to Peg him. Which means you take on a strapon dildo and do anal on him. Thus he will have the opportunity to experience it in all of it's glory, and fun. And may just remember it. After all, if he wants you to, he should be willing to reciprocate.
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Make sure he takes his time and is gentle with this. Maybe even have him perform analingus to provide some extra lubrication- and practice with anal bead or butt pligs and have him do the anal beads or plugs to so he can see just how much pain might be if he is too rough and too fast and see how much pleasure when it is done right.
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