by newy on September 5th, 2007

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Im in a great relationship and getting married soon iv just started college and also found out im pregnant an i dont know wot to do. i dont want to leave college but i want to keep my baby wot should i do....

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  • by Galeanda on May 4th, 2008

    Galeanda

    Set your priorities. What is important to you, most important. And then list them in descending order. See if yu can get help from others that are dependable but don't plan on them being there, just in case.

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  • by Jewel on May 4th, 2008

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    Do both. You certainly wouldn't be the first to do it.
    It will be more difficult, but it is possible to do, and you will happier if you try.

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  • by Anonymous on May 4th, 2008

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    Keep your baby. You made a mistake. It should have waited until later but life is far beyond college. You can still graduate but it may be a little more challenging. Congratulations. That's what it's all about.

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  • by Anonymous on May 4th, 2008

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    You have a lot of options. In this day and age you can do so much. Maybe years ago you would have been expected to give up the baby or quit and become a stay at home mom, but in todays life there is a way to balance it all. You didn't say what you are going to school for either. Sometimes depending on the degree you are studing plays into it too, if you will have a huge work load and not be able to be their physically and emotionally than you might want to weigh what is more important in your life. For me I wanted to be with my kids and raise them myself and luckily my hubby has a great job so I can do this. I am also running a Home Daycare out of my house so I do make extra money too. I can't at this point go back to work I wouldn't make any money, between daycare and gas. Do what is right for you and I am happy that you are trying to make it work rather than having a pointless abortion. Good for you and Good luck!;)

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  • by Grammy Robin on May 4th, 2008

    Grammy Robin

    Congratulations.
    You can still do it but it will be a little more difficult. The baby should not suffer because a mistake was made.

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  • by haggis on May 4th, 2008

    haggis

    you need to explore your options, in this day and age a woman doesn't have to have a child till she feels completely and utterly prepared too. she has a choice and should exercise her right to choose. only you will know.

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  • by NYCROBO on May 4th, 2008

    NYCROBO

    See if your school will allow you to take courses online for a few months. That should help.

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  • by angel_of_mercy on May 4th, 2008

    angel_of_mercy

    a baby doesn't mean you'll have to give up going to college. i'm sure if family members and friends are not able to help you out, you can get a babysitter, paid for by the goverment. or even by yourself. - 3-5 hours a week is hardly going to be THAT expensive for a babysitter.. maybe 30? 40? a week. your E.M.A should cover that, anyway.

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