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  • no, it means you just think too hard too fast. find a girl you like, NOT FOR A RELATIONSHIP! and just get comfortable being around her. who knows, she'll probably think its cute.
  • Before she became my girlfriend, her little sister ran out while we were talking once and said to me "She thinks your hot!" I blushed big time but no one acknowledged it. Now we look back and laugh, she said it was cute. - You blush that is I don't get how you could be perverted for blushing. Don't stop it, you will just have some one that a lot of guys don't. You will get use to being around girls and then slowly the blushing will go away. Then it will only happen once in a while and the girl you are with will love it.
  • NO. Here is an explanation from an answer I gave months ago on AB about blushing. http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/.../...ttwittenborn.html "My personal experience is that I tended to blush not exactly when embarrassed per se, but rather whenever I felt I was making, or had made, myself vulnerable to the criticism of others. When something I had done, such as arrive late, broke a social rule. What I could not understand was the purpose blushing served; what use could this phenomenon have? It became clear as I researched the issue that one's propensity for blushing was directly linked to one's sensitivity to the opinion of others (4). However, actual phenomenon of blushing is an appeasement behavior designed to signal to the rest of the group that the individual in question realizes their social transgressions and asks for the group's approval or forgiveness (1). People, like myself who blush frequently, have an oversensitive and therefore inaccurate perception of what constitutes a breach of decorum resulting in more frequent episodes of blushing than someone who did not perceive themselves to frequently commit social transgressions. The source of negative self- attention that results in this need to appease the group and by extension which leads to blushing were divided into categories: threats to public identity, scrutiny and the accusation of blushing (3). All of these result in negative self- attention and the sense that some social norm has been breached, resulting in the perceived necessity for an appeasement behavior, in this case, blushing."

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