There is nothing wrong with you I think it is very admirable of you to be attracted to people with handicaps Don't let others make you feel you have something wrong with you for this because you don't they are the ones with the problem.

I cant tell you why but theres nothing wrong with you, you are referring to guys on wheelchairs like they are different but they are not the fact that they need a wheelchair doesn't mean they are less than anyone else, so i don't see anything wrong in the fact that you feel attracted to them.

Thats one I've never heard before. Its probably a degree of being in control(physically). I like men in uniform beacause I like being the one controlled. I find it very interesting.

I saw an exhibit this week at the Museum Of Sex in NYC. Your question hits on two specific exhibits. There is a medical fetish where some people are turned on by casts, slings, bandages... it is some type of "medical fetish". Then there was a display about the sexuality of the physically disabled. Showed a gal who was paralyzed who posed for Playboy in 1985 to boost her self esteem cause she was a pretty girl in a wheelchair. Some people mistakenly believe that if someone is disabled in an accident or has a birth defect that they "check their libido at the door". This is just not true. Many folks in wheelchairs have very active and fulfilling sex lives. http://museumofsex.com/exhibitions/intimate/index.html Some people like those with limbs that were amputated or are stumps due to a birth defect. I met a guy in a wheelchair who was such a nice person but he drowned his troubles in alcohol because he was paralyzed at 18 in a bad car accident and it depressed him badly. There are a lot of great folks in wheelchairs that would most likely welcome a relationship with you. Hopefully, it's just not a passing fancy. I doubt anything is "wrong" with you. We all have our personal preferences and fetishes that make us who we are.

I hope you are being serious because if you are then you are one of those who are blessed to look beyond the chair and see what is important. If you are not serious then shame on you for being insensitive.

you have a handicap fetish

there is nothing wrong with you.

People who are attracted specifically to disabilities and not to the person, are known as devotees. You can read more about this on wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attraction_to_disability There is a more scientific review here: http://www.amputee-online.com/amputee/bruno_art.html and another here: http://www.disapedia.com/index.php?title=Devotees

As a quadriplegic, I feel uniquely qualified to answer this. I have experienced examples of several answers posted--one woman was drawn to the control (safety) after just getting out of an abusive relationships, others have told me I'm admirable/intelligent/funny, most say I'm cute/hot/nice looking, but it almost always has come down to seeing beyond my limitations and abnormalities. Once they were beyond those, the normal issues of attraction, chemistry and compatibility were the focus. I have never let my disability define who I am and many women have told me that is an attractive quality.

WOW are u serious??? I'm in a wheelchair and I've serious trouble meeting girls and it's really starting get to me so if yeh'd like to get to know me then hit me up and I'll give yeh my e-mail have a good one!

Nothing. Are you attracted to ALL guys in wheelchairs? Maybe it's not the guy, but his chair your after. I think if the answer to the former is yes, than you must have a fettish. Nothing wrong with that, but if the man in the chair is less important than the chair itself, maybe you have , well, a fetish. I dated a guy in a wheelchair once, and I rarely gave it a second thought, he was the one who had trouble with it. It's all a matter of what's important to you personally. To me, nothing is as important as the person, the man himself. Everything else is apples and orangers.

Because u can gaze at hi penis and face same time

I don't know why u would feel something is wrong with u. If anything your more like a breath of fresh air cause u gives nice guys like me hope that someday he might be able to get a girl who is actually attracted to him. it's like being gay really if u can accept it then there's no problem. It shouldn't hurt anyone it's not unsafe and doesn't require any special training. The fact is it's just different, and being different is what makes the world go around!:)

You probably have that whole 'helper' bullshit going on. Either that or you're joking around on here and just wanting to see what kinda answers turn up.

Nothing is wrong with you. I'm in a chair and date a lot. Its no different than being attracted to a personality type.

Could be a fetish, or you just might be a compassionate person. Not sure you can call either situation 'wrong'.

maybe in a past life you were married to a man in a wheel chair

if the wheelchair is what you find attractive then you probably like to feel needed

Sounds like you want them to need you. And you feel a need to take care of them.

It's just a fetish, we all have them. Nothing wrong with you, unless it's a deep-seated desire to be with men you can't fix in order to express a fix-em-up desire indefinitely.

Maybe you had some kind of experience that conditioned you to be attracted them? Is it a big deal?

Because he's needy. My brother says though women are some reason attracted to gays and crips.

Why does something have to be wrong with you because you like guys in wheelchairs, I find it great!

Being truthful in the fact of the matter just as everyone has explained their is nothing wrong with you at all the fact that your attracted to males in wheelchairs is perfectly normal in most cases it usauly has to do with your naturive qualities as a women the point that you overlook a disablility is that it doesn't make or define the person it whats inside that shows who they are as the child understood or body are how we move ..but it's not what we are it's the car. The makes all the calls , don't have dought your not the problem your human hehe (get it)^_^

there was a guy on here a few days ago who asked why no-one finds him attractive because he was in a wheelchair... you should get together :P