ANSWERS: 13
  • To him that may make it seem like a relationship, which may be what he doesn't want.
  • You don't say how long it has been since he moved. Also, since you both knew your friendship was not a couple but just one with side orders of lovemaking and nothing more, he is probably moving on looking for the next best thing in his new neighborhood. Don't sweat it so much and get ready to move on yourself. Hopefully, into a more fully developed relationship next time around. Good luck!
  • well , i like your answer, but i don't think it was like that(it could have been), we have been friends for 2 years and then it changed into friends with benefits. he moved just 2 or 3 weeks ago.
  • You were nothing more to him than a cheap easy piece of ass did you really expect him to call once he moved away of course he had to talk to you when he was living there out of fear you would cut him off if he didn't talk to you He has obviously moved on with his like I suggest you do the same and btw I apologize for being so blunt and cruel about it but I don't think there is one person here who would not say I was wrong about what I said just maybe the way I said it
  • he would come over pretty much everytime he was home and hang out like just friends and only sometimes he would ask(if you know what i mean). so....help? does this change anyone's answer?
  • I think what happened was that he was not emotionally involved in the relationship, like you said it was talking and then there was some sexual stuff, so he wasn't involved emotionally so for him, he was able to move on, learn from this mistake and before you sleep with the guy make sure he likes you for you and not just because you are the girl right in front of him.
  • There is a nummber of things.He could have lost or misplaced your nummber.He could have forgot.Guys dont allways rember things and sometimes they just dont care or fill like it.Sometimes they dont look at talking on the phone to any one as being important like they look at it is what is there to talk about when are we going to do it next time?I was raised around 5 brothers and my husband doesnt like talking on the phone ethere.My brothers arent into talking on the phone no guy I have ever know likes chatting on the phone.Me and my brothers communacate on a computer game typeing while we are playing a game.Maybe he isn't into you or doesn't know that you have or had feelings for him or whatever.You should have told him before he left that you care about him and see what he has to say if he didn't like it screw him,LOL.I ment forget about him.There are other fish in the sea and maybe it wasn't ment to be.
  • You were "friends with benefits". Notice the absence of any type of "relationship" there? When you agree to have sex without a relationship you do just that. Sex without commitment. Don't expect commitment if you agree to not have it.
  • ...because it'll be awkward. A lot of ppl think its weird to talk to ppl on the phone. thats why ppl text. he probably doesn't know what to say to you...texting is way easier bcuz there's no awkward silences...
  • he knows he can't text me, it cost to much money. my phone plan sucks.
  • What he had was easy. You lived right next door, got along great and had sex with no commitment. How much easier could that have been? Calling regularly is not only as easy but in his mind may seem like a relationship, more than he signed up for. Plus it seems overall guys are less comfortable on the phone and only use it when they have to, I know that's true of my honey. Who knows, he may start calling however I wouldn't pin my hopes on it. Take it for what it was, enjoy your good memories.
  • He's getting his benefits from his new neighbor.
  • Call him as a friend. Nothing more, just say hi. Push and you will push away.

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