ANSWERS: 14
Playstation 5 News
Don't Miss It!
All the Latest Announcements
Ad
  • My boyfriend says he has a crush on another girl, but he loves me so it's different? He said he wants to be on a "break" cause he's confused and doesn't know what to do. I really love him and im hurt n confused.. HELP?! :( .. [it never lets me put the whole question.]
  • If he loves you like he says he loves you. You should be the only one he likes.
  • There is sa difference between a crush and finding someone attractive. I find many many woman attractive, but I do not want to date any of them! Ask your BF if he wants her or you, you should never try and stop a man from "window shopping" as it will fail (the same as he should not stop you) but if he wants to date her then he prob does not want to be with you. Sounds to me like your young, enjoy the time you have while you are young and dont take life too seriously and you wont get hurt!
  • Oh please!! WHY do people always say you shouldn't stop a guy from "window shopping"! Thoughts precede action - why should you not complain about this offensive, rudem insensitive habit of morons that would do well to look a bit more closely at what THEY actually look like themselves! If your boyfriend has the girl he wants to be with then he will not be on the look because he will be content. If he has taken that one step further and has actually said he has a crush on another girl then I think taking any further steps towards a meaningful relationship with him is futile! What if this girl were to reciprocate? Is his loyalty that strong? It is astoundingly obvious that it isn't!! And he doesn't even give a damn about telling you! Take the hint and find someone who can love you for the unique and beautiful person you are. What are you - second best because he can't get that other girl? If you are as important as you should be then that girl wouldn't even get a second glance!! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!! Take care of yourself...you have to be strong but it will be worth it...trust me. Even being lonely for a while is far beter than being second best and abused...or even first best when there is such a close second!! And as far as looking at others being okay - if you have the person you want to be with you must STOP browsing through the catalogue for others - it is only ever a matter of time before you see something you like better and it is all based on superficial attraction. How feeble is that!! xx
  • If he REALLY loved you, there would be no confusion. He would nip the "crush" in the bud and concentrate on you. Let him have his "break" and tell him not to waste to much time, cause you not going to wait very long for him cause there's other boys showing an interest and you want to get to know them.
  • Ashley, is Lisa your mom and Lori your aunt? Is Grampa Ned still sporting a pompadour hairdo? I drew the sign they hung on their garage door when you were born. Seems like ions ago. Your boyfriend is playing games- maybe you should tell him the same and see waht happens. Haha, works every time.
  • I am in the same situation right now. My advice to you would be to dump him. Believe me it will hurt a lot less if you dump him now than if you stay with him for three years and he still likes the other girl.
  • My ex said he loved me and wanted to have sex with me but wanted to date this other girl.WTF? We all have these stories. Move on. dont look back.
  • girl im going threw the same thing...he said that he kinda like her but then he dont..but we been together for a year now..and itz like how can u not kno if u want me or another girl after all the stuff we been threw..but im clueless to..but now he tryin to say he dont want her and now he kno i was made for him...but i waznt like that thee other dai..but he said he thought about all our ups and downs and kno`z he dont wanna let that go...but i dont kno wat to do.!..im in so much...pain cuz he got me to open up and wayz that i waz hella scared to and he promised not to hurt me but look wat happend.! i need some help...anybody plz.! should i believe him or not.!
  • I went through the same exact thing. My boyfriend said that everything is perfect for us that he was thinking that the next step wld be marriage,but he was not sure. He had this other girl that he had always wanted to get with and said she was the one that got away. She somehow contacted him and then he was confused, he didn't know who he wanted. He broke up with me and 4 weeks later asked back. I took him back but I can't get over how he basically broke up a/me for her. I feel 2nd choice. I also feel like he still talks to her. I feel like maybe I shoulder got back with him. I love so much. I have never felt like this for no one else but I don't feel he loves me the same. It hurts so bad. I think I am going to move on. I don't feel secure on this relationship anymore.
  • He's not ready to commit. Are you willing to put up with that or are you ready to demand more? Decide, then stick to your guns.
  • But what if the other person that he like is a teacher? Is it even that serious?
  • I cannot forget the day when my boyfriend said that he has a crush on another girl, inspite of having a relationship with me for 4 years. He is really mad about her. I was too disturbed to hear this. But then i wanted my first love to be happy(I had a love at first sight with him, and proposed to him). We lived such lovely days and then one day he confessed to me that he has a crush on HER. I then contacted his crush and told her everything. She was confused too. Then i somehow convinced her and they both have patched up. I MISS U DA, BUT I AM HAPPY THAT YOU HAVE YOUR CRUSH TO TAKE CARE OF YOU. I WILL LIVE WITH THE MEMORIES OF 4 YEARS OF THE BEAUTIFUL LIFE WITH YOU. LOVE YOU SWEETHEART
  • A cake and eat it too kinda guy. Lose him.

Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC

Answerbag | Terms of Service | Privacy Policy