ANSWERS: 6
  • I wouldn't say it's rude, but it is embarrassing. If you need to ask, ask before you get far into the conversation. Say something like, "I'm sorry, I know I know you from somewhere but I'm so bad with names and faces I just can't place you."
  • I see nothing rude about it. Possibly the person is experiencing a case of mistaken identity, so don't necessarily blame yourself. However, that does not mean that you can't politely inquire as to who they are. I would say, "I'm so sorry, but I can't remember where I know you from." Then the person will enlighten you. Hopefully at that point you'll recognize him or her.
  • It could be. Instead of saying you have no idea who they are, feign distraction. Apologise and introduce yourself and wait for the other party to reintroduce themselves. Use their name and ask. "How long has it been?". "When was the last time we saw each other?". That should give you some clues. Telling someone you are not good with names and faces tells the other person you have no social skills and are not worth talking to any further.
  • No, it is not rude. the human memory banks can only hold so much knowledge. i remember faces, but not their names. embarrasses me all the time. i tell these people, "i know your face, but refresh my memory with your name, sorry". this way, you are saying something, that really means nothing. it gets worse as you get older. i do whatever it takes to jolt my memory.
  • i have been in this boat before...and, it is embarrassing........i was watching the King of Queens comedy show where Doug forgot the name of his wife's coworker and was supposed to introduce her to a stranger....he faked a heart attack to get out of his forgetting her name...hahah......i would find a common friend who know's their name....you should be fine.......Brian.....
  • I have been in that showboat before and I just come out and ask.

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