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Dont worry, alot of people have felt like this at some point of their lives :) . For me, I wasnt very sociable growing up, I was nerdy in fact and I didnt know how other people worked very well, individually and together as a group. I was always afraid that my best wasnt enough or that if I let other people see me as I was they would laugh at my incompleteness or that they would take advantage of me. Needless to say, survival instincts kicked in and I put a barrier between me and everyone else for some time. . Sometimes I felt fake, because I never admitted my true thoughts or feelings when others asked for it or even required of it at the moment's notice. I always needed to go back and think things through, make sure all my weak points were covered, etc. And then if I did remember to tell them, I would be careful how I worded it so it never revealed more than I intended it to. . Dont feel bad - Im not sure how old you are, but there were times even in my 20s I felt like this. Im in my 30s now, and I havent felt like this for a long, long time cause Ive had enough time to work on my weaknesses. :)
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honestly, don't care if i get minus points....but quit doubting yourself and be yourself, come on now
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Don't be fake. If you can be real and the people in your life like you, then they are real. If they don't like you then they were using you for your weak attributes. Let go of the things that are keeping you down and start working for the things that can make you happy. It is okay to be alone. Helps you get head straight. Find a job (even if its a small one) and be the best - not the best you can be, be the best. You will start noticing real people coming around thanking you for your efforts. That will feel good but that is not what its about. Look in the mirror and love the person you see. Do it with work and kindness - screw those idiots that think you are a wus-bag. Make a home for yourself and the rest will follow. - SAM
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