What exactly should "waiting" for a relationship entail? I'm 20 and she's 15. We really like each other but aren't sure if we should try to see other people or actually "wait" for each other.
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At 20, you are getting ready for marriage. At 15, she is not. Wait till she is 20, then see what happens.
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When you're 25 and she's 20 there's still a 5-year difference :-) It's not the age difference so much as her needing time to finish school and give some thought to where she sees herself in a few years. You should be doing the same. Ask yourselves where you would like to be 5 years from now and how you envision your lives might be at that time. Joe-Speedy mentions you are getting ready for marriage at 20! Wow, at 20 you are just beginning to understand what love is or could be. After all marriage is a life time commitment and before that happens you need to discover who you are, what you want from life and if you are willing to share it with someone else. The song says, “only fools rush in”. My free advice would be to give it more time and see if you both still feel the same way in a year or so then take it from there.
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