How can you extremely dislike someone you've never met? You don't know this person and whatever you've heard is decidedly one-sided. I'd suggest you accept her offer and get to know her as a person so you can learn to be a little less knee-jerk judgmental. Unfounded animosity is nothing but a hindrance in a relationship.

DO IT. everyone hates their loved one's ex. You have the opportunity to be a strong, confident person. She wants to (probably) spy on you. But you don't care, because you're too focused on your OWN life. :) She probably wants to see pictures of you, and read your comments, notes, whatever.... Just show her that you're confident enough. Always remember this, Celebrities are always being talked about.When they don't care, it makes them appear 10x cooler than before.

Nuke her. Maybe shes one of them stalker babes. Get yourself a tasar and some mace.

I don't understand how one can dislike someone they never met. I would check her out, and make a conscious decision as to whether you not you truly dislike her. No harm in trying.

ex or not, if you dont like her, then no, dont be her friend.

the exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. i dont like his ex (it was a casual relationship only lasting a couple months) because the time i was forced to endure her presence she was incredibly rude to me. when she sent the request..i accepted it because i wanted to make the effort to give her a chance, my guy is under the impression that she is his friend. so, i approved it..and by chance we ran into her at a social situation a few days later...not only did she completley snub me(which i think is disrespectful of him her 'friend")but she went out of her way to tell stories about him from the past that were embarrassing to him..as far as im concerned..we are both better off without sucvh a poisionous, manipulative person arond..so i deleted her. maybe save yourself the trouble and just ignore the request.

She may be setting you up to destroy your relationship. She has information about him, and/or she can just make it up and you'll never know the difference. The thing is, she'll be able to twist your ear just enough at key moments to drive the relationship in any direction she chooses. Steer clear.

If you don't like her, don't accept the request. That simple.

I am sorry to hear that. Then, do what you think is best.

I don't think it's a good idea. She probably wants to be your friend so that she can get back into your bf's life. And that seems a little devious. If I was her, I would only go back into my ex's life if he or his girlfriend would want me to. But not the other way around, it seems like she just want to be back in his life in any way, and probably wanting to get to you first so that you wont object when she starts talking to him again. Just go with your gut feeling, and visualize what it would be like to hang out with you, her and your bf.

I say let sleeping dogs lie. And in this case that's the ex. When an ex comes into the picture like this they only one intention and that's to ruin your relationship. Also you already have the skinny on exactly what kind of person she is not only from your boyfriend, but your freinds and your own experiances with her. She's cruel and vindictive. And if I can get that from your posts I can just imagine what she's like in real life. Jay and I had a simular situation right before he passed away. His first love found him on myspace and sent him a friend request on Sweetest Day. Now when she requested I did let him because I was under the impression she was married and I knew the husband stop it. Turns out she was divorced and her page was not what I would call apporopreate for her age. I told her I was not comfortable with it and to remove him. Instead of respecting me she sent him increasingly innaproperate e-mails. The first one she acted all hurt and told him bunch of lies about what I said. The second one she told him that her boyfriend and her were into bondage and if I didn't like her talking to him they were going to kidnap me and beat me. To me she was playing little miss freindly. Needless to say I went off. All she wanted was to wrap him around her finger again. And she more then proved it by not showing up for his funeral even though I invited her or even sending a card.

she is probably trying to come between you two. i wouldn't trust it at all. she clearly has alterior motives for doing this. she probably wants to get closer to your man. be weary of her.

I'd say that maybe she is interested in finding more out about you! LOL One of my boyfriends ex girlfriends used to be weird like that too! But she would ask people about me! LOL I just thought it was funny!

are you that shallow to dislike someone you never met?

SHE MAY STILL LIKE HIM YOU KNOW THE SAYIN KEEP YOUR FRIENDS BUT YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER WATCH OUT SHE SPROBABLY TRY TO SNIFF SOME STUFF OUT TO RUN AND TELL HIM SO HE WILL BE HERS

Perhaps she wants to be friends, but it sounds a bit weird. What kind of person would want to be friends with her ex-guys new girlfriend? I'm suspicious. She might want to use you to get closer to him. Deny the request!

Look what i feel is everyone having some good and some bad things, a interaction is neccassary to evaluate and know the person exactlly he/she is, so what i would suggest go and interact it and who knows may be u find he having a good heart covated with other things and to which u cant see without interacting with him...Be positive and always keep ur spirit so much high that no one can harm u by just adding you as a friend...