How do you write a good match.com email after you've both winked at each other?
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themoviemogul
ANSWERS: 4
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don't know. I am in the same boat as you are!!
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You simply write a short message.... hi, I was interested in such and such in your profile....especially when you mentioned....tell me more about...we have a few things in common.... By the way, I met my husband on match.com.
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Keep it short and simple, try to ask surface questions, and try to avoid getting too personal. I don't reccommend writing a lot about yourself in your first email, but leave it as such that they'll ask questions about you. For example" "Hello, my name is Jimmy, how are you doing? Your profile has caught my attention! That's awesome that we share (point something out) in common, what do you think of (make a question)? I notice you're in college, what are you planning on majoring in? I go to (college name), it's a pretty cool place. Well, I just wanted to drop a line, I should be around the next couple days so take your time getting back to me. Bye!" There is no set time before you see each other in person, it all depends on the person. I am I very patient person, and all ready knew I was comfortable with my other, therefore we took it very slow before I first saw her. I had much more enjoyment out of it that way, sadly I think we were too similar and ended up friends. Cheers man!
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Keep it *really* short - don't spend too much time writing to a member, because they aren't all paid members, and thus they can't all read your messages. Yes, even if they've winked at you. I like to write *one simple question* related to something in their profile to start it off. I call it the "one-line hook", and I wrote more about it here: http://onlinedatingmatchmaker.com/writing-messages-on-matchcom-the-one-line-hook/
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