Doesn't mean you're screwed-up at all. There's plenty of intimacy that doesn't involved genital-to-genital contact so you can still gain heaps of intimate experience yet still be a virgin. Also the use of a penile substitute would help so that when you eventually decide who will be your first, it will be a snap for you and should be a very pleasant experience. Age doesn't really matter.. Only your desires and willingness to experience love & sex.

Honey I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 (and I'm only 23 now). You're only 21, not 41. People can have sex at 14 but it can screw them up. Age doesn't matter. It's about being ready, mentally, emotionally, etc.

NO IT'S NOT TRUE . YOU DON'T WARRY THERE IS NOT ANY EXACT AGE FOR DOING SEX N YOU CAN ENJOY THIS AFTER SOME TIME ALSO .. WAIT FOR SOME TIME N THINK ABOTU IT THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO DO N HOW N PLAN EVERY THING N YA PLZ DO TAKE PRECAUTIONS OK N LIVE HEPPY LIFE ...

not at all, i lost my virginity at 21(22 now), and I hate that I had to wait so long, but, at least it happened with someone really special, and no, how the hell would it affect your future sex life? But, between you and me, and everyone else reading this, i do feel screwed up for life b/c I was a virgin til 21 not by choice. I feel like there was something wrong with me. you know.

You are not necessarily screwed-up for life, but you are well on your way. Why don't you have a boyfriend? There is someone for everyone but you gotta go out and find them.

I'm 21 and still a virgin myself. I've been on dates with guys - including an on-and-off, two-year "unrelationship" with a wanker I've known for a decade who let his psuedo-baggage get in the way of having a meaningful realtionship - but none of them have been the right person for a relationship, let alone someone who I deem worthy of sharing my body with. Sometimes I feel like a freak for not having had a boyfriend or a sexual relationship as an attractive 21-year-old female, and I have (pathetically) been brought to tears by the thought a few times. But the real problem is with society for making people feel odd or worthless for not meeting ridiculous "deadlines" when it comes to sex and relationships. Don't worry - there are plenty of people like you and I out there who are virgins not (neccessarily) by choice or for often-misguided religious purposes, but because we are choosy and have not met the right person yet. That, and it has been scientifically proven that people who lose "it" too early often experience serious sexual dysfunction later in life. Not only are we saved from short, groping, uncomfortable sex with gawping teenage boys, but also from sexual dysfunction. A serious bonus, no? :)

I'm 18 (soon to be 19) and a virgin male, relax, this isn't the end of the world. As a matter of fact, it's a bit better for you since you're a girl, and a bit worse for me since I'm a guy...

I lost my virginity at 23 and i an a (male) for male it is narmal to lose it at 13 while for females it is 16. that however does not mean your screwed up. The age does not matter what matters is that you wate to fined someone that loves you for who you are and not just to have sex for adult entertainment. most men have sex for fun not for love. When they love a girl they stop having sex with other girls if thay realy love her but sex is always to get off not for love. A man willing to stop haveing sex for fun with other girls and is willing to wate for you is the one that loves you.

Not at all, I am 23 and still a virgin. Just be patience and I would preferable wait until I am married anyway.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21 years old. Trust me, when you find the right guy it won't even matter that you haven't had sex before. In fact, it will make him feel more special for being your first. Just relax and enjoy life as much as you can - everything will eventually fall into place when the time is right!