Can you have a emotional connection to someone if you have more of a sexual connection? Im greatly attracted to a guy but i never know if we can connect emotionally or further than just sex.
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Of course you can. Sex can be the glue that keeps you together but it's the emotional connection that is important. Do you like him? Have a few dates without sex--I know that's weird but it will tell you whether there's a connection besides sex. when you do have sex, go slow, lk him in the eyes, try to prolong it. Talk to him. Let the romance flow.
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Fact from fiction, truth from diction. If all you have to connect with is sex, you have no connection of substance and never will. You spend way more time out of the bed with your close on than in the bed naked. If you have nothing in common to do or talk about other than sex, it is not too hard of a stretch to see there is more flash than substance. Imagine you are trying to form a friendship or relation with someone who has an avid interest in whale hunting, or taxidermy, if that is not your passion or interest, how excited are you going to be when they subject is brought up? Or that person aside from the bedroom has no interest in any of your passions. I guess when you are not naked in the bed you can fake it, pretend you like what the other likes and suffer through it until you can be naked in bed again. Sitting in a dentist office might have more appeal. But if you can create a deep foundation off sex alone, more power to you.
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If you like him just for sex, then only sex, may he got big one, if you really love him, then both, sex and emotion, am i wrong.
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